I'm very sorry to read this. My mom fell about 6 weeks ago, her injuries were not as severe, but she is almost 86 with mid stage dementia. I was scared, overwhelmed, and thought this is not going to go well. But, it did go OK. The rehab center was truly amazing and she is now back at home and with some additional safety measures added and some extra help, they are back to their routine. Take care of yourself. It is hard to be the child in this situation. Lots of responsibilities and decisions to be made. Healing thoughts your way.
Q