Yes use pavers...I gave you the wrong idea. Just not as many.
No gravel or DG paths. Landscaped areas are fine in small amounts.
I like the stepping stones/flagstones idea.
Leave a narrow strip of dirt next to the white brick wall for planting something...and elsewhere, any small patch of green or mulch will make a difference. Along the house where the meters are etc.
For the cans, don't bring the pavers to the curb, to the drive is fine.
No pavers from the curb to the door, stepping stones or flagstone.
Yes driveway pavers, actually just finishing the drive with concrete would be perfectly fine if you wish, and not unexpected. Yes, you can stain concrete easily.
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