There is a gorgeous home similar to yours in the city I am moving to... painted/stained off-black, window frames & all. Reminiscent of what they're doing in Denmark etc. Looks gorgeous. I will try to take a photo in two weeks when I move!
Here are some photos I had saved for colour inspo when I was trying to close on a 70s wood house...
Nothing wrong with black stain & white frames...
And the opposite of black...
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Polo Blue
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