We need to see the kitchen. Ecru could be a range of colors, and the color of the floor is relevant too. If your kitchen is open to a family room, will that room be painted the same color? If so, we need to see the furniture in that room for color coordination. Is there a BM or SW equivalent to the cabinet color? If you want to stay in the same color family you should be looking to go lighter or darker if you can't get an exact match. Which do you prefer? How do you feel about a touch of green? Green looks good with warm whites.
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