We painted the walls in our kitchen Shoji White and we have similar cabinet, granite, and backsplash colors to yours and we LOVE it!! I chose Agreeable Gray the first time, but it emphasized the yellow/orange in our cabinets, so I repainted with Shoji White. Though Agreeable Gray and Shoji white are similar, the more neutral undertones of Shoji White looked so much better with our cabinets. This paint color really helped our cabinets feel less yellow/orange. Here are a couple pics. We sold this house in one day, so it appears potential buyers also liked our paint color choice.
* I should also note that these pictures were taken a couple weeks ago around 8:00pm, so the walls look slightly more gray than they actually are in person because of shadows.
Q