Hey Micki-Micki, how long after your conversation with you back in 2008 have you stayed together til the breakup and if you don’t mind me to ask what was the reason?
I’m having such a hard time on my own. My boyfriend of two years has two kids one teen girl of 15 years old and one 11 year old boy.
After one year of relationship with him we had couple of arguments and he broke up with me then about nine months later I’ve texted him again and we got back together.
he swears he loved me from day one and always involve me on his life with his parents and kids.
The problem is within those nine months we’re not together he tried to reconcile with the kids mom as per what he says because he really needed the kids yet after a month or two trying things didn’t worked out so he broke up with her... then from that til when I texted him was another three months.
after I’ve text he started to pursuing me and we’re back together for almost another year.
The problem with that is that the ex supposedly hates him and uses the kids to affect us.
three month ago we went to Disney world got Christmas and my ex posted on Facebook pictures of himself, his kids and I having fun.
From that almost instantaneously she started calling non stop and texting the kids to the point where the daughter started to cry and the father took the phone to read the texts and the mother was shaming her for being a traitor and having fun with Us and told them both to enjoy me because when they come back she wouldn’t be there.
After that day the kids changed, they’re no longer receptive to me, they are not disrespectful but they’re silent when I’m around and that makes me feel very uncomfortable and the sad part is I love them and I know they like me too but they feel like they’re doing something wrong if they’re talkative and nice to me.
My boyfriend told me that she is very vindictive and does not have feelings for him other than hate and she’s in a campaign to make his life miserable with any woman.
yet sometimes is hard to understand because he has her number blocked but when I check her block messages for the past six months at least twice a week she texts him things like, “hey how are you?” Or “I miss my family” or “ I wish you were here” or “why do you ignore me” or “why do you block me” or Pictures of the kids and them when kids where little and they’re together.
Mind you that she has a boyfriend for three years that as far as I know lives with her.
After the divorce she was with this boyfriend an year before my boyfriend and I met.
my boyfriend told me that when he asked to work things out with her she never left the boyfriend and even though my boyfriend and her got intimate couple of times in that period she was still with the boyfriend that she is until today.
For me that woman is a mess and she measures no limits to attack him even if she has to use their children.
His family love me to death, his moms birthday is the same as mine and we’re very similar and he always said if how much his ex never blend in and never like his parents including the mom.
i know he loves me and so does his family and that makes me happy but the other part hurts like hell and that makes me very confused on what to do to feel better.
if you some any insight please kindly help me shed a small light in this dark painful place I’m in.
And I would like to humbly apologize for my English and grammar as English is my second language. I hope you can understand my cry for help <3
God bless
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