If you’re moving in 3-5 years, why are you spending 64K on a kitchen remodel at all? Is the 25K that you will lose on this remodel worth it to you for the pleasure that a new kitchen will give you? If so, then run from gray cabinets and the host of fads on your list. Gray is dead. Thank goodness.
http://www.remodeling.hw.net/cost-vs-value/2018/
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Great link on how much a remolding job will recoup.
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