i think i know what you are saying, i basically have decided that the surface, whether it is the cabinet or the wall, that gets the more light will look lighter, one that doesnt will look darker..... so i am thinking, since in my case the wall gets more lights, that i might want to go with a creamier white, and the cabinets that doesnt get that much light, will be a whiter white...
i am just thinking out loud hehehe, thanks for listening...
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