I've had my brass pulls (Amerock Revitalize) since late 2009. They have a lacquer finish, are heavily used, and don't show even the tiniest bit of wear. I also have the brass faucet pictured in your photo #3 and have been very happy with it, as well. I Started out with a chrome faucet and that looked just fine with the brass.
Also have white paint +medium brown stain combo and am not tired of it yet. (-:
Q