Here are some SW whites. as you can see, your paint sample is really yellow in comparison. SW Alabaster is comparable to BM White Dove. if going for a match w/this stone, I'd pick something on the left column.
BM Simply White is my favorite. it's a perfect 'neutral' white. (really has no visible undertones)
here is Alabaster. notice the cabs closest to the doors and natural light. nice bright white, yes? now look at the left side where it gets indoor lighting. takes on more of a creamier white.
so, make sure you have the correct task lighting temp bulbs in your kitchen area. 4000K would be perfect.
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neutral beige (Temporal Spirit by Benjamin Moore)
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