Yes, I have sent numerous messages that she has replied to, but I haven't received. And they don't seem to bounce back to her. I just opened a hotmail account and she seems to be able to reply to messages from that account. All 3 of my AOL accounts aren't permitting her replies or messages to come through. So it seems to be an issue with AOL and whatever server she is using. I have looked into the settings on my AOL accounts as well as the settings on my Norton AV and to the best of my knowledge, I don't have anything set up to block her email address. Any other possible ideas to look into? Keli

That is one of most touching things I have read in a long time. Tears are streaming down my face. Thank you so very much for sharing this. Suddenly the stupid "words" Dh and I exchanged before he left for work today don't seem as important. I think I will go call him... Trish

Konrad, a few of us also started up another actual forum at http://farnorthgardening.ca/forums/ and we have the Google bot buzzing through multiple times a day! You can edit/delete posts, bookmark, subscribe for email notices on different topics or posts, upload photos directly from your computer or phone and it is completely ad free. The facebook version works for some, but unfortunately it just wasn't what I was looking for but I know lots who are a part of both.

Great idea that you suggest... although unlikely to occur imho :/ So giving just a shred of forum courtesy would be keeping the "debate" it in one thread on topic, where one can choose to read it or not... as opposed to taking over someone else's thread every time hvx is mentioned.