Molly Beagle -- making the worst, best choice.

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We will say goodbye to Molly on Sunday morning. They are coming to the house, we will hold her, and we will feed her a piece of chocolate and give her kisses.

Her back legs are giving out and she can no longer get herself up and she falls over when she walks. 18 beautiful years. We had a good run. To say I am devastated is an understatement. You can know it is coming but you are never ready.

Thanks to her life-saving heart surgery, she had a bonus SIX good years, so I am trying to keep that in mind. This will be a much harder transition than when Bailey died because going from two dogs to one doesn't change your life in the same way as going from one to zero.

I have already emailed three rescues. I want another dog immediately, but we need to find the right one for our lifestyle. There will never be another Molly though. My first dog, my heart dog.

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eld6161
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(((Hugs)) So sorry to hear this. Molly is an amazing dog and so wonderful that she got to help raise your son and daughter.

You have an abundance of fond memories to hold close during this emotional time.
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nicole
last month
I am sorry to hear your losing a loved one, but I'm happy your ready to adopt. So many need a home. Thanks for planning a rescue.
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Ally De
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I am so glad she got to live her life with you. You gave her everything every dog ever dreams of - a loving family of her own.

Whenever I lose one of mine, knowing that they lived their entire life in a safe, stable, loving home gives me small comfort. You can't keep them forever, and knowing when to let go is truly one of the last, kindest things you can do for them.

I agree with what everyone else said. It's time, bless you for realizing that, and bless you for loving her so well for so long. She was a lucky girl to spend her life with you.
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pricklypearcactus
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My heart breaks for you and your family. I know how much pain it is to lose a beloved first dog. I hope your warm memories of how wonderful Molly was and how much love you shared with her helps ease your pain. You are so loving and kind to take on the pain of giving her peace when her life quality is suffering. She has had so many (18!!!) wonderful years with you and I cannot imagine a better life for her. Know that your fellow dog people are thinking of you in this time.
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gsciencechick
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I'm very sorry. Eighteen years is super impressive for a dog, but it just makes it worse to lose them. She lived a long time after her surgery.

We did radioactive treatment for Panda's hyperthyroid, and no matter how long she lives I also feel it will be worth it.
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Arapaho-Rd
last month
Beagles, I can only imagine your heartbreak and for your whole family. I hope knowing your friends here care and feel your loss helps some. Hoping you find a new dog to love and one that will love you and enjoy the wonderful home you have to give.
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maddielee
last month
I am so sorry. She was lucky to have you.
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3katz4me
last month
😢 😢😢 there are no words to describe that kind of loss or ease the pain and sadness 😢😢😢
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roarah
last month
I am so sorry.
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czarinalex
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I'm so very sorry for you and your family. Cheers to Molly for living her best life and giving all her love and devotion to you over the past 18 years.
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deegw
last month
So sorry to hear this. I agree with maddie, she was very lucky to have you.
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Kswl
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Beagles, I’m so sorry. You’re doing the right thing. ❤️
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dedtired
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Oh dear, oh dear. Im so sorry. Its the worst part of being owned by a pet. Hugs to you and your family, and to Molly.
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Funkyart
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I am so very sorry, Beagles .. my thoughts are with you and your family. ❤️

I hope you find some peace in the many years you shared with Molly and that your kids also got to know and love your heart dog!
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Honu3421
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I am so very sorry. My heart hurts for you and your family. Molly had a wonderful life with a loving family. She was lucky to have you.
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gigi4321
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I'm so sorry for you and your family. I've often thought about Molly since I followed your journey with her (our family dog was also a beagle.) I applaud your decision to get a rescue. No, there will never be another Molly, or in my case, Tucker, but another dog will fill the void and fill your home with doggy love.
OutsidePlaying
last month
I’m so sorry Beagles and family. Molly led her best 18-year life with you all and we know she will be forever missed and in your hearts. It’s so hard to make this decision even when you known it's the right thing to do. May you all be at peace. The right dog will come into your life.
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salonva
last month
I am so sorry to read this. 18 years- what a wonderful life.
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jojoco
last month
So many of us have walked in your shoes. I am so very sorry. What a good girl. Every time that I see a beagle, I think of your Molly.

Sending hugs, kisses and belly rubs.
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lisaam
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Oh, Beagles, you have given Molly an amazingly wonderful life and I’m sure that she has loved you for it (evident in every holiday photo she has graced and every costume she has rocked ). Condolences during this very hard time.
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beaglesdoitbetter
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last month
Thank you so much for all the kind words.
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Indigo Rose
last month
(((hugs))).
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lizbeth-gardener
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Beagles, I'm so sorry. Molly has been such a big part of your family and so good with your little ones. I always enjoyed the holiday pics with her right in the middle of the fun. Sending hugs your way. Cherish the memories.
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Annie Deighnaugh
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So sorry... so hard to say goodbye.
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laceyvail 6A, WV
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Our hearts break every time we lose a beloved animal companion. But we would never want to be without one.
mtnrdredux_gw
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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Kendrah
last month
So very sorry. My dog died last February. It is horrible. The pain you feel if proportional to the love you had. Terrible and wonderful at the same time.
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Irish2
last month
I’m am so sorry for the loss of your Molly.

I know first hand the pain you are feeling.

We had to make those diffucult decsions 70 days apart for our two. We have since opened our hearts again to a 4yr old rescue.

(((hugs)))
jb1586
last month
This is such a tough decision, but the kindest one. We’ve been there.
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schoolhouse_gwagain
last month
I"m very sad for you. I agree with others, she certainly had a great life with you and your family.
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1929Spanish-GW
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I'm so sorry. It's hard to lose a pet, but you're doing the best by her and can take comfort in that.
blfenton
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I am so sorry to hear about Molly. She is such a great dog and family member. We will all miss her being part of the family photos. ((((Beagles and family)))
cawaps
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It's so heart wrenching even when you know it's the right decision. Hold on to the joyful memories.
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beaglesdoitbetter
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last month
All of your wonderful comments are bringing such comfort. I can't individually reply to all of the because I start crying but I cannot tell you all how much I appreciate the support here.
pudgeder
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Sweet Molly has been such a good girl. She has blessed you all for a long and good time.

I wish you all peace during this time, and know that she loves you as much as you love her.

Blessings to your sweet family!
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orchidrain
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Hugs to you all! I know how hard it is, they are such an important and loving part of our lives.
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chickadee2_gw
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When I’ve known the time has come to make the decision, the anticipatory grief has been the worst. It’s just awful. I’m so sorry.
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LynnNM
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I am so sorry for your loss. Eighteen years, OMG! What blessed fur kid she was to have had such a beautiful, much-loved life with you!
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dedtired
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Thinking of you this morning.
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Jilly
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Hugs. ❤️
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porkandham
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Thinking of you and your family today.
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Ida Claire
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I'm so very sorry. Molly was a beautiful girl.
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DLM2000-GW
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Thinking of you today beagles.
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bpath
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(((Hugs this morning)))
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blubird
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Sending hugs of comfort to your family from Kallie. Run free, Molly.
rubyclaire
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I'm so sorry and thinking of you and your family.
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beaglesdoitbetter
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Thank you so much for thinking of us. She went to sleep very peacefully in my lap and after they gave her the meds, she ran in her sleep- I like to think she was dreaming of chasing her ball again.

When she came home 18 years ago, the first thing she did was crawl into my lap. It was so fitting it was also the last.
Arapaho-Rd
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((( beagles ))) she's in no more pain. I'm hoping you are finding some peace knowing that.
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blfenton
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((((Beagles family)))) I was thinking of you this morning. You guys had done and been through a lot these last 18 years and she's been with you every step of the way.
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bpath
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((( Molly and the Beagles family )))
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