Flo the existing fan is likely 53" in diameter and the chandelier can be hung a bit lower than the fan so any chandelier posted will physically work, though some may be too visually heavy.

So many options! Love the white and grey. What kind of hardware on your cabinets are you thinking? That could determine the color finish of your lighting, but here's a few samples For a silver finish pendant: https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Silver-Finish-Non-Wooden-Chandelier-Pendant-p/hearst-hes-001.htm or https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Denmark-Collection-Polished-Nickel-Finish-Pendant-p/1717-1512d12pn.htm or https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Polished-Nickel-Wooden-Chandelier-Pendant-Modern-p/b00orkmqvka.htm For Gold finish pendant https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Antiqued-Golden-Finish-Non-Wooden-Chandelier-Penda-p/bach-hcb-002.htm or https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Golden-Finish-Non-Wooden-Chandelier-Pendant-p/hilton-hit-001.htm Another silver chandelier for a dining room option: https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Chandelier-In-Polished-Nickel-Traditional-Contemp-p/1624-10123-6.htm A mix of silver and gold pendant: https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Non-Wooden-Chandelier-Modern-Pendant-Silver-Gold-p/blair-bai-001.htm https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Driftwood-Nautical-Industrial-Wooden-Chandelier-p/b01h5kyzm6a.htm https://www.woodenchandeliersplus.com/Retro-Art-Deco-Rustic-Wooden-Chandelier-p/b077xc2s9b.htm I envy you, so many choices. Have fun and good luck with whatever you choose. Looks like you thinking more modern, transitional? Is that Quartz with a waterfall edge? Beautiful and practical. Love it!

You need to try samples in your space. I like that Winds Breath has some warmth, but is a neutral without yellow or pink undertones. It may be helpful to consider what colors you are planning to use for your furnishings. Also check the wall color against your flooring. You might also consider BM Pale Oak, which is slightly more griege with green undertones.

The foreground light is by the front door, I didn't angle very well with the photo so it looks as though they are very close but they are placed far enough. I was mainly trying to show the three lights as they are so similar to each other. The room IS pretty dark and yes, that's why it is over lit. I also have lamps and recessed lights. Will try to take some better photos!! Thanks very much for all suggestions, minus the sarcastic bored person blurb.