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Comments (14)Thanks, KJ. I had been trying to prepare myself for their departure beforehand, sort of steeling myself to the fact that every day I got up to a full house of my beloved pets, was like pulling a full house in a poker hand repeatedly. ;-) But having them fall like a house of cards weeks apart was surreal. Death brings a numbing shock and perhaps that's a blessing. It really helped to have one of the most gentle and compassionate vets I have ever known. The look on his face when he put the last one of them down had to be a mirror of mine. Hardly any words were even exchanged that time. That being said, the richness they brought my life over two decades is worth the sadness. I'd do it all over again without even stopping to think about it. It's also counterproductive to mourn their loss before it happens because if you do, then you lose the precious time you have left to share with them. They all had very, very good lives here, and in that way I really feel priveledged that I was able to give it to them. I don't know too many people who would give a fifteen pound tom cat an enema every two weeks for four years. LOL. That's love....See MoreHumble Abode experience anyone?
Comments (1)I have not, but can you compare the strong points in your bed to the one you're looking at? How the joints are attached to each other, what holds the mattress, hollow headboard legs, etc? Just some ideas. Christine...See MoreHad a Humbling & Insightful Experience Today
Comments (5)Hi sylviatexas, Nice to see your posts again. I always enjoyed reading your posts and your wise words. You are so right. Hindsight may make us see things a different way. After more than 18 years with DH, it took me a long time to realize that if my relationship was the way it was with his oldest daughter, a lot of it was his fault. He should have spoked up a lot more when it was time. Today, i must admit my relationship with his oldest daughter is much better but that's because I WORKED IT OUT! No help from DH and of course he seems happy to see that i have much less to say about his oldest daughter or his children in general. I still have a lot to say about the oldest daughter but i've learned to keep my mouth shut! Less waste of time and energy on my part. What i find difficult to live with these days is '' resentment''. Resentment for what i have done for these step children; resentment towards DH, etc. etc. I think it is getting worse for me because of the changes in hormones and all, but still. I have been doing a lot of reading lately on happiness, serenity, relationships, etc. etc. Too bad i didn't put myself first in most situations in my life. We can't live with regrets, but what a life lesson this step parenting situation brings to me every single day. Would i do it again. Nope even if i really, really care and love DH. Keep posting....See MoreThey’re on the way!
Comments (3)Between the three “local” fabrics stores, each about 50 miles away, and without driving 130 miles to Fargo, there was not one yellow 1930s fabric, to be found. I found one blue fabric (I thought it was hideous) so these were my choices. This block was my my favorite fabric combo. There are two of these blocks......See More- 2 years ago
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