Looks like a viburnum, perhaps Rusty Blackhaw (Viburnum rufidulum)

TT, the painted cabs should be solid wood, with MDF panels only. no reason to have all fiberboard. 3K more to paint as opposed to staining? wow. Sounds a bit high. Confirm that the doors/drawers are indeed solid wood, with only MDF center panels. I had my cabinets painted last year. I have solid wood (birch I believe). but the drawers weren't the same as the doors, so for another 2K, I got all new door/drawer fronts in the same shaker style. They are all solid maple with the door center panels being the MDF. my floors are white oak, and I have walnut around the vent hood and window. You will have to see how he does the stain. You say you don't want it to come out like your last pic. so how can you be assured that it won't? Elkhorn would be safer since it doesn't have any yellow. And like I've said, your other two pics are on oak. not birch. you understand the difference in wood, yes? you like the kitchen stain colors w/oak. So get oak and not birch I'm just concerned that you want blue lowers/wood uppers. Have you found a picture w/that combo? even this one is all wood w/blue island. As for the walnut butcher block, 4K is ridiculous. is this a builder home ? you know they make their money on all the upgrades, right? It's cheaper if you go w/base options, and have things redone once you move in. like countertops or backsplash choices. take the included option on the island. when you move in, pay to have what ever you want. I guarantee you it will be cheaper Don't they offer a standard white cabinet? I think you should rethink your two tone options

these should get you started In your second pic, it actually looks more gray. This Wolf Gray is a perfect match to the photo here are some grayer blues. Knoxville Gray: Lighter shades: Providence Blue https://lifeonvirginiastreet.com/the-best-blue-gray-paint-colors-and-our-freshly-painted-front-door/ make sure you're viewing the samples in your kitchen with good lighting. I like 4000K bulbs in the kitchen. anything lower and you're getting a lot of yellow tones.

First prime those walls so they are white that color is skewing everything. Then make sure all the light bulbs in all the fixtures are LED 4000K then come back . IMO you either have the backsplash that was there or you remove that add a backsplash not both .Are you changing the floors ? IMO they do not work with gray so what was the reason for then gray?