Why is this a thing in the UK?
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Why can't I find things to be pretty just because I do.
Comments (32)may_flowers and sprtphntc - I seldom buy either. I have been buying and looking at a few things lately. Both my mother and my MIL downsized this year and I got a few small pottery pieces from each of them. I wanted to display them but none of them really went together and so I was looking for other pieces to set them off so I was prowling consignment stores and antique stores. So much of it was pretty but not suitable, but when a piece "spoke" to me and I thought "yes, you will set off and add to my enjoyment of my great-grandmothers water pitcher", that's when I bought something. palimpset - exactly. I agree with you. I too prowl real estate listings (used to frighten my DH) but I don't want a new house. Appreciating things does not mean having to own them. mudhouse - oh I really like that imagery of "stocking the visual library in our minds". I'm going to use that line on my DH the next time a situation arises. Then watch him try to figure what I'm saying - he won't get it, poor guy. romy718 - Perhaps like your daughter, I just want to convey my joy in seeing something that I think is, for me, pretty. I don't expect the person that I'm with to agree with me because I do know that we all have different tastes and different definitions as to what is visually pleasing. I guess I just want them to see my joy in seeing something that I find to be pretty and I want to share that - not to buy but just to stop, take a minute and enjoy looking.. Oh, and to be clear that doesn't actually happen all that often. And kevinmark - you're right ,not every gorgeous accessory is meant to buy. I suspect that if one did that the joy of owning pretty things that one found joy in would somehow be diminished over time. For me anyway....See MoreA bit OT: This is why we can't have nice things ...
Comments (18)Yes, a house is a very powerful concept, and thus, can be so frightening to us, like a house that is uninhabited anymore and is slowly decaying; or a house that feels like it's inhabited by souls of dead; or a house that reminds of a tragedy You know this ghost town, Bodie, in Sierra Nevada? You can go and visit there..had mines, gold and others..was abandoned in thirties, by its population or whatever left of it, rather abruptly. You can still see their school and church and houses, with things covered with years-long dust..Fascinating, yes, but it was extremely gloomy and unsettling ..also high up in the mountains and the sun was setting..very lonely, it felt. The most sad pictures I ever saw on the subject are the Chernobyl and Pripyat ones..the people who lived there were evacuated in the middle of the night..left everything behind. There are still dolls and books and clothes..but everything is empty, everything is poisoned too, no hope for the next hundreds of years..the woods are taking over, the buildings decaying..books and dolls and people's stuff..but no people. I'm especially sensitive to that subject since I was in Kiev at the time of the explosion..I was a young girl so I didn't realize how huge the tragedy is..but oh I remember so very well how the dear lying two faced damn government didn't say anything to their citizen and tried to, you know, sweep everything under the cover as per their custom..we knew the night it happened by a mere chance-my older brother flew from his university to be with us for his spring vacation, and the drive fro the airport to the city is an hour usually..he spent 8 or 9 hours in that taxi because the highway stood, and the cab driver told him "They say Chernobyl station blew up so they send firefighters there and it's a huge mess". So when he was finally home he told us. All the others were told after all the other radio and TV stations in the world caught on it and the government felt already uncomfortable like they should say something too. After they held their First May Parade, exposing thousands upon thousands of people with their kids, lilac blossoming and all, like nothing had ever happened. Then took them two more weeks to decide to evacuate schools. And yes we didn't get it as awful like Pripyat of course but we got it bad. I was sent to my relatives to a different city; they took this geiger counter(had one at work) next to me to see what's going on with my clothes and stuff..well the counter couldn't count because the arrow went off scale. The amount of people with problems that are haunting them since.. Of course whoever was there in the first place putting that fire off-dead, very soon. Goes without saying. It felt differently then I was a little girl. I was too little to really fully get it. I had a longer than usual summer with all sorts of adventures because so many kids were sent away there was not enough space sometimes to fit them all, so everybody got creative..And people as usual battling bad stuff with humor invented tons of dark jokes about radiation, some were actually pretty funny. But now when I see these pictures of city abandoned that people will never come to again, and no prayers will help, it hits me because now I understand. A house is a shelter, materials put together, clay and wood and iron and whatever. Us, people-we are the ones who give it meaning. We make it. We live there. It's alive only and because of us. And that's why this profound feeling of loneliness and sadness and sometimes of a doom when there is a house with no people. And no promise of people. and no hint of a promise....See MoreWhy won't things line up?
Comments (5)So, will it bother you a lot if it is slightly out of square? I used scrap lumber leftover from other projects to build ladders to serve as tomato cages (I like indeterminate tomatoes; they can get 5' tall). My ladders are not square, straight, or pleasing to look at - but they were cheap, they fold up for winter storage, and the tomatoes don't care one bit. You'll be covering this frame with chicken wire - which is not the easiest thing to work with. Unless you are very meticulous, the chicken wire will not be perfectly straight and square, so any misalignment in the frame will be masked. Do you plan to left the whole frame off the bed to weed and harvest? How will the frame be attached to the bed? I am really fussy about things I build in the house, but outside I am more willing to accept "ugly but effective"....See MoreWhy is this thing popping up ?
Comments (3)This? If so, just select at least one forum to "follow" and it will go away....See Morejojoco
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