Looks like Rose of Sharon to me. A double bloom variety. Here is a link that might be useful:

Thanks ..I looked both up and found a site that said this "However, from its wing vein, we are sure it is a Bee Fly belongs to Family Bombyliidae" aboput a guy that looked similar. Since they both look similar..i think its a bee fly. i hope they arent stealing my caterpillars... Have a great day...

An extra large egg has about 4T of content and a large egg has about 3 1/2 so if you use 5 large eggs you'll be over by 1 1/2 T. You could stir up the eggs in a measuring cup and then dip out the excess if you want to be exact. Or you can just use the 5. With the cake mix I doubt it makes that much difference. Go with whatever is most comfortable. You can use a yellow cake. It will be less lemon-y. Or you could use the optional lemon extract for the lemon boost. Carol

It's not getting enough light, so there are lots of chops in the plant's future. I'd just chop it back to wherever you like & wait for it to back-bud, which it will. Figure out the soil/drain thing and whether the salts in the soil have somewhere to go (like into the ground). You'll need to fertilize with something other than kelp extract, too. I suggest Foliage-Pro 9-3-6 for many reasons, but importantly, it helps keep plants more compact (less rangy) due to the fact it doesn't get it's N from urea. That's a major consideration in poor light conditions. Al