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Comments (2)I had a very bad, very expensive oven that didn't work after 9 repair calls. I finally got them to buy it back. They sent someone to remove it. My dealer credited me. I bought a new oven, which cost $700 more than the credit. I have custom cabinets which are factory painted and high gloss. I bought an oven that had pretty much no complaints on this forum and that didn't require huge alteration. I had some left over painted wood pieces from shelving. The installer did a seamless job of patching and installing the new oven which is fabulous. Another world. I'm about to do the same thing with the microwave under the oven which was blown out by a power surge. I'll now have a micro/warmer. The new unit is 4" shorter than the old one. It will be patched by the same installer The additional money is annoying to be sure. But way less annoying than appliances that don't work, food that isn't baked or ice that isn't made. Life is too short IMO. The electrical hook up and water line can be moved. The cabinets can be filled or enlarged slightly by a good cabinet installer. I'd call your cabinet company and ask their help. If done correctly it should not be noticeable. Get a really good fridge, the one you want and make it fit. That's what I did and what I'm doing again and if my fridge had been unrepairable (it also was blown out in the power surge) I would have made the same alterations I'm suggesting to you and swapped it out for something better....See MoreMoms dementia: a situation what would you do?
Comments (6)Have you had the opportunity to talk with her doctor to explain what happened before, and your fears about what might happen? That would be my first step. There is a chance the surgery could set her back, but living with the mess is not good for her either. What if she slips on a wet spot? My mother had alzheimers, so I understand what a difficult decision this is. She developed lung cancer, and we were told that treatment would very likely make her alzheimers much worse. In some ways, it was not a difficult decision to decide against treatment, given the circumstances, but again, when she first found out about the cancer, she wanted to fight it, like anyone would. That made the decision difficult. None of this exactly relates to what you are going through, other than making decisions for others that can affect their life in such a big way is difficult to say the least, and I feel for you. You might also find a support group, if you haven't already. My sister and I got lots of help from the Alzheimer's Association, and I regularly attended support group meetings. It didn't change anything, but it helped to talk about it, and learn how others cared for their loved ones. Sally...See MoreWhat would you do in this situation?
Comments (27)i'm back. been a long day of telephone calls and tears. she said she will not be taking them back. she's come to the realization that she can't help them because they really haven't helped themselves. one positive thing, someone from her church sent someone to talk to her - not sure if this was a lawyer or a from a child agency (i'm getting some mixed info). she actually said "i have to realize the little ones kids are not my responsibility". i thought that was a big step. (we know how she means that, so don't think by not making calls to social services or the like, is what she meant). both are in school, first and third grades. she has talked to teachers, one plays sports - so his coach, etc., and no one ever thought neglect for a minute. even though the parents might be smacked azzes, they have not neglected the boys in the true sense of neglect. and she would know neglect, if you knew her story as a child. so i thank you all for your thoughts. earlier when i spoke to her, she cried when i read many of the posts and said after a while "that's enough, that's enough, i know, i know", i've heard it from all of you, i heard it from XXXX visitor. when i said do you really believe in what you are saying and she promised she did. a relative is on his way to her, he has a business trip mid week and is making a little side trip to stay for a few days and see what he can do to aid them in finding housing. she made it clear that they will not be returning and he will be with her and whoever this person was that visited earlier, so that they hear it face to face and there's no confusion. this woman is wonderful, with a heart as pure as gold. it's not the first time she has extended that heart and probably won't be the last. it's her nature. this one was hard given the circumstances of her family and the promises made. i know her heart is breaking, but i can also hear a certain relaxed manner about her knowing she has made the right decision. thank you all again....See MoreWhat would you do in this situation?
Comments (31)There's a lot that goes on "behind the scenes" that managers know about, but not the other workers. Maybe you think she walked out with no notice, but maybe upper management had forewarning. Maybe she had a very legitimate reason for not returning - and management doesn't feel that it's anyone's business but hers, and they're keeping her reason(s) private. You referred to her as a "student worker." In state service, we use students from the local colleges/universities. As students, they do not accrue civil service credit, they get no benefits, and they get no guarantee of hours. They can be let go at any time without any notice and without any type of severance pay. Althought it's great when a student gives advance notice when they intend to leave, they don't all do it, and, really, how can we "expect" them to when the state at any time can say to them, "we don't need you any more"?...See MoreAllison0704
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