My first thought after looking at the granite is that the granite doesn't have any of the warm colors that will look good with the copper sink. I agree that the pull that Beeps posted above doesn't really work. But then the color of the copper doesn't look like a natural copper finish. Easy way to tell if you like the look of a copper sink with the granite is to put some pennies up against the granite and see how they look. From the pictures I've seen of the granite, I'm thinking it won't work. When I was looking for pictures of that sink and granite combo, I found this thread where someone asked that very question you just asked. It's about 3/4 of a way down the page posted by Sherrydtr. Both the "experts" (no clue who they are!) responded that it wouldn't be a good combo. Just thought that was interesting. I've got two copper sinks in my kitchen and love them. Easiest sink ever to take care of. They do scratch but they are a living finish and the scratches heal. The key to a copper sink, IMHO, is to raw copper in the sink instead of a finish. I clean mine with soap and a sponge. Here is a link that might be useful: Marble.com

Blue pearl goes great with cherry cabinets. I have red birch cabinets with blue pearl (you can see pictures on my home page) but the reason I got blue pearl was that I first saw it in a friend's kitchen with cherry cabinets and it looked awesome. They had blue pearl counters and a blue pearl tiled backsplash which is what I did as well.

Can you get some samples of various paint colors in the gray or blue gray family that might help you narrow it down to the one you love the most? My instinct says to avoid finding a gray color as that will be really challenging to match the perfect gray with the grays you have. Rather find something with green or blue hue and a gray base. That way you won't have to try to match it perfectly. I too have struggled with blues. Here are a few of my favorites. glass slipper BM

And believe me… I’m an over thinker. I looked at a gazillion whites and read a bunch of articles about undertones, which way the condo is facing, etc. So glad I just went with it.