Hi, everybody: It finally happened. The kitchen is done and I believe the colors and contrast match perfectly. Like most everyone else, we'll live with it for a while before deciding what do to with the backsplash. Again, thanks everyone for helping us deciding the contrast that was best for us. Joe Ps. Her's a link to the pictures and there is also a before and after set. http://www.flickr.com/photos/joe_p Here is a link that might be useful: Kitchen remodel

It's the "black glaze" part that I'd eliminate. Glazing like that has a tendency to make the cabinet just look shabby and old. There's enough going on with the gray stain on the wood, no need for glaze too. You also better make sure you will be comfortable with the variegations in the wood which will come to the surface with that wash. See on the sample pic you posted of the Snowbank door how the vertical, horizontal, and center panel pieces look so different from each other? Make sure you see it IRL and imagine that all over your kitchen. Some people--maybe you--might say "how charming, I love that". Others might not. Which one are you?

I don't think Agreeable Gray is too brown next to Rainwashed; I was going to suggest Accessible Beige, which is actually a little bit browner. Since your current colors are all over the color wheel, I think anything you pick will work better with some and worse with others, but I don't think Agreeable or Accessible would look really bad with any of them.

Fistr get rid of all the yellow hued lighting or what ever you choose will either not look good at night or not look good in the natural light. Change the lighting to all LEDs in4000K if you like the natural light best Then IMO no more beige at all. Is that tile behind the lighting? If so that should be removed it works with nothing and really makes no sense there.