Your Queen Anne Victorian was built when there were no honey oak cabinets. So it sounds as if the house has been renovated.

Please post photos. Would love to see the exterior

Greiges that might work are BM Edgecomb Gray and SW Accessible Beige. To me the difference between these two colors is undetectable. If you want something lighter, just be sure to stay with warm colors (touch of yellow). Blue will make orangey colors pop (not in a good way), but greens go well with honey oak and the wood floor colors you usually see in older houses. Sample, sample, sample. Please don't paint your woodwork, but those honey oak cabinets can go whenever you're ready for a project. :-)

Thanks for the input on the wall color~I’m I’m not a fan of the current cabinets, but for now, I’m looking for a pleasing color to tie everything together. I will never paint original woodwork!!!😳.

The greens would be wonderful.

Grays, maybe not so much.

Whatever makes you happy to be in that kitchen is what you should choose, the kitchen is a very important room!

Also, what makes food look appetizing.

Hence, ixnay on the gray!

I like tis for anice neutral with wood I often cut it 10-25% to get the shade I want

If you are brave, I loved this kitchen I saw in the real estate listings in a historic newport Ri home.

This is Fairmont green in BM historic collection

I used the bm app.