Stay away from box store anything. Cabinets need to be sprayed with a conversion varnish, in a clean room, by a Pro. Not site finished with bugs and dust.

@HU-969855738 I was terribly busy yesterday and didn't get the opportunity to respond to you. The three colors I picked out when I made my suggestions were very different undertones, but were meant as examples of the depth of color. There are two factors that go into finding the perfect color that are really difficult to do via the internet. One is that color preferences are extremely personal and two, colors have to be looked at as a collection of colors. It must be 25 or 30 years ago when I came home to Pennsylvania for Christmas. Back then, when my mom was still alive, the entire family gathered at her house for Christmas Eve. It was quite the celebration and we all took pains to find the perfect outfit. My sister Betty lived here in Pennsylvania, Susie drove in from New Jersey and I flew in from California. Apparently there was one outstanding velvet pant suit sold across the US that season. My two sisters and I had all bought it. I have ivory skin and dark sable brown hair and dark brown eyes. I bought the deep Christmas Red. Susie has olive skin and golden brown hair and brown eyes. She bought it in deep Emerald Green. Betty has dark blond hair, fair skin and hazel eyes. She bought it in deep Navy Blue. We obviously have very similar taste, but our coloring is not the same and our homes reflect these same differences. We all live in Pennsylvania now, but Betty's home is decorated in a contemporary style and her color palette is soft beige and pastels. Susie has a tudor home with an eclectic mix of Antique and Industrial furnishings with a fall color palette, deep oranges, golds, browns and greens. My home is an MCM home with MCM teak furnishings. I am renovating, but my color palette is being pulled from the colorful slate entry (called Red/Purple/Green slate). Walls have not yet been painted, but here is a picture that shows the entry tile (with drywall dust): I am using a lot of reds, teals and gray purples (my final decor will not include a paint sprayer on the hearth). To know what will work for you we need to understand what your style is and what colors make your heart sing. What are you using with the Super White trim?

I am curious about the netting on the railing upstairs and you mention the wood look floors maybe what you are trying in all of its permutations is just the wrong choice. You seem to like deep colors so maybe that is why you find neutrals a bit blah IMO wall color is the backdrop for furnishings,art etc . I like a soft grayed/ green for walls it is neutral but still a color and thankfully not beige . Check out BM Healing Aloe or a similar color.

"Our stone company said that the New Super White that we already purchased is a Quartzite we already had template so there is no going back for us now. Sadly I came across the information that it is not a quartize after the fact. Countertops go in next week so thinking maybe I can have stone company out on an additional sealer before and know what I am getting into. I really hope I wasn't duped...feeling a little dumb that I just took their word for it." I disagree. You're in a position of strength now. They want to get tops installed in order to be able to collect. If you don't take delivery, they can't collect. A critical part of business is customer education which leads to customer satisfaction. They haven't properly set customer expectations; make them do their job please.