You can't use a cool white with those cabinets, you need a warm white. Look at BM Simply White and/or SW Alabaster. You can get peel and stick samples from Samplize.com, or paint sample swatches on your walls. Alternatively, you can paint samples on a board or scrap piece of drywall so you can move it around to look at it on all four walls. Be sure to paint two coats when sampling and hold the board vertically against your floors and counters since that's the way the color will be next to them. Sometimes it helps to paint a section with primer to look at your samples against so you're not distracted by the existing color. Look at the samples at different times of the day and when it's cloudy and sunny.

The way a color looks is so dependent upon the lighting and direction your windows face. There is no way to know what is going to work without trying a couple. You can paint the ceiling the same color, or use what the paint store calls "ceiling white" which is very neutral. Ceilings tend to pick up tint from the surroundings.

Thank you so much Ὁ3

Thank you for all the advices

yes you are right I am sorry but now my kitchen job is done so no more questions anymore :)

So glad that you have finished your project and are happy with the result!