Backpack For !8 Year Old GD…MTN or Anyone, Please.

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Getting ready for her freshman year in Rome. Thought it would make a good grad gift. She’ll be making lots of excursions during holidays and weekends. Her graduation party is Thursday, so must jump on this ASAP. Thankfully, We have a couple of good luggage stores nearby. I’m ashamed to request the rush, but you all are such a wonderfully group , I think you will understand.

Bigtime TIA!

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When my god child when off to Europe I gave her a silk travel sheet. I don't want to advertise one product, but the sheet can be washed and air dried in short time. She said she could not have survived with out it.

Pure silk sleep sack protects you from allergens, dirty bedding, and bugs. Sleep in comfort wherever you go with this portable travel sheet. Use in hotel beds or as a luxurious sleeping bag liner. This dream sack provides a silky cocoon of protection during your most adventurous journeys.

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MDLN
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Backpacks are so personal and because they're often used on a daily basis, features need to be just right.

While I avoid gift cards, in this case recommend one. (Was given gift of a $250. NWT designer bag - without a gift receipt - that just sits in closet.)
maire_cate
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Check REI's web site - they have a great selection and you can key in the features that you want - capacity is probably the most important and then function - frame or frameless - travel, hiking, casual, waterproof, padded straps etc.

This is the one my DDIL uses -

https://www.rei.com/product/177574/osprey-tempest-20-pack-womens
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floral_uk z.8/9 SW UK
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I agree wth MDLN totally. You need to try on a backpack just like trying on clothes or shoes. And features like pockets and compartments need to match her requirements. And remember too, she’ll have to include it into her baggage allowance on the flight. I’d give her the money and let her buy her own .... if she needs one ... either before she goes or when she gets there. Presupposing she doesn't already have one, which seems a bit unlikely.

eta the Osprey pack mentioned above is a 20l daypack, too small for overnight and considerably smaller than the carry on allowance.
Adella Bedella
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Could you give her a card and ask her to pick out a backpack and you will pay for it? I also find them to be personal. Or you could look online and find one you like and give her that amount and ask her to pick one out.
wildchild2x2
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I agree with the above. proper fit and function is important and individual. A gift card for a backpack is the best answer. Not from a luggage shop but a place like REI.
faftris
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Both of my girls have the North Face Jester.
lily316
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REI is the best place to look. Take her with you so she can pick and try it on.
Elmer J Fudd
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I agree with MDLN. A backpack is almost like an item of clothing and personal wants and ideas about what's right can vary so much from person to person. Take her to get one and let her know why you didn't choose it yourself. She should appreciate that.
Fun2BHere
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Not to pile on, but she's going to Italy, a place known for beautiful leather goods. I agree with providing money for her to use on her trip!
carolb_w_fl_coastal_9b
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What about a gift certificate to one of the luggage stores, so she can pick out her own bag?
colleenoz
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I would look at PacSafe, their products are designed to resist theft, with steel mesh built in to resist knife slashes and special clips to prevent thieves opening a zipper without you knowing it, etc.

As others have said, backpack choices tend to be individual so maybe a voucher so your niece can choose her own.
martinca_gw sunset zone 24
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I knew IT! you all ARE the best. fast …and absolutely correct. You were writing as I was out shopping. Looking at them, I realized I had not a clue. I got this which will work for an

overnight or two. Add a little check and its good go.put it next to Victoria mag for size reference. Thank you ALL so much!!!
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Colleen , PacSafe sounds great. Judy…Big yes, to the silk sheet!
Stephanie
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I lived abroad, italy specifically for three years. i would buy a bag here in the US. bags and luggage there are much more expensive, take into account the exchange rate, returns are more difficult if it breaks, the variety and selection is smaller, etc. i would go with enough clothes in a check in bag - she can buy the rest there if she needs it, and medication etc. that is not available in europe. also check the size of the backpack is true carryon size - not too big - some european airlines are very strict and make you check it and pay.
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OutsidePlaying
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Just to add, if she wants to carry her laptop in the backpack, she will need to make sure it fits. I’m glad you made the decision to let her pick one out.
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arcy_gw
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It's been too long but yes check our REI my daughter was headed to China at the end of her years at University--choir tour. She found just the thing...back pack wise.
vinmarks
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My daughter studied abroad in Galway Ireland. She used the ebags Motherload travel backpack for short trips to other countries. It worked out really well.

https://www.ebags.com/backpacks-bags/travel-backpacks/mother-lode-travel-backpack/117754XXXX.html?dwvar_117754XXXX_color=Garnet&cgidmaster=root
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