That's not a very good quality picture to judge color. Do you really want us to make a selection using artificial lighting? There is hardly any difference between some of them.

I don't see any difference between 3,4, 9 & 10

There's no difference between 7 & 8

See the quality of the pictures below.

Late start, thanks, I will take some first thing in the morning

A couple thoughts:

• is the space where you've put all your sample swatches part of your floor? If so, you'll need to strip that wood again before you put your chosen stain and finish on. And some stains are really hard to remove. It would be better to have a "swatch" board that you can move around.
• stain soaks in to the wood. So how long you leave it before wiping off the excess affects the final colour. Do multiple applications to get a deeper colour.
• if you don't like the commercial stain colours, ask your floor refinisher to make you a custom mix. One way to do this is to give him a door or drawer from your cabinets and ask him to match it 2 shades darker (or whatever suits you).

I like 5 the best!

The Dark Walnut works well with red oak and your cabinet hardware.

Colors look all the same aside from the two top corners. I like the darker one.

They all look the same because they are all light stains (or darker colors cut in half, which makes them light!)

All of them look good. If you pick something that is not a "blend", you will make the job easier for your refinisher, and also might save a buck or two.

I might suggest you have some contrast between the floor and the cabinetry. So, instead of trying to match I might suggest staining the floor ebony.

I actaully need to see the kitchen but I agree the floor will never match the cabibets so a bigger congrast would be my choice but those cabinets look pretty dated so is the plan to kkep the cabinets then Ireally need to see the whole space and unless those cabinets are also red oak there will never be a match .