Conversation: Is it a woman thing? Paranoia?
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Woman's edible garden cut down by city
Comments (16)What gives me the right? You are acting like I did this or agree with it, get real man. All I am saying is that there are usually two sides to a story and we only have one side. She was growing food in her front yard, in most places you cant have vegetables gardens in your front yard and that is a huge issue in America. Personally, I think you should be able to grow your OWN food in your front yard, so long as its in touch with the landscape design of the area and not decreasing the area in property value. Why do you slap a label on me so easily, I don't have entitlement issues, obviously you want to press this. Like I am against this lady and for the city, or that I am some greedy man that is only interested $. I just think more people need not believe everything they read right off the bat or see on the TV. If this lady has a case it should go to court and she should receive more than adequate compensation for her losses and legal fees. What gives you the right to restrict someone from growing their own food in their yard? Nothing, its not my city nor do I agree with it. Why does your belief in some kind of entitlement to higher property values supersede their utility/use of their yard for growing food? She still has a backyard, side beds, and could have used the front yard, you can still grow edibles and have them look really good in a front yard without decreasing property value, I don't think she did anything to decrese property value "but also don't feel like I could say for sure", but I didn't see much of a before and after picture of the front bed and am assuming thats the bed that they used as justification to cut the yard, don't know where she lives, don't know if it was just a quick notice and then cut, or 10 notices, don't know if the beds were not 5 foot high and overrun with mice etc. There also could have been a history we don't know about, did she do something to "challenge the city" was the city getting even? Do you know everything? For all I know the pictures could have been from 3 years ago. You would think the city would have a reason for cutting it and not being total idiots, that is all I am saying. Don't be so quick to label me as greedy or a lawn monger....See MoreAre you a 'High Maintenance' woman?
Comments (11)I quit coloring my hair over a year ago but 'touch up' a too obivious gray streak that developed when I was 18. I have a nice hair color, I don't know why I started coloring it in the first place (Someone probably dared me to do it) (Spell pedicure correctly 3 times: pedicure, Pedicure, PEDICURE!) I enjoy the maintenance when I have the time, maybe I'll have more time to pamper myself when all the boys are away at college next fall. I am upping my sunscreen protection and slowing replacing my makeup with products that include it. I can't think of anything I do every month on schedule anymore. When I colored my hair, I would call it "Mom,s Spa Night' While my hair was morphing, I would give myself a facial mask, use the epilady places where I needed to, and soak my nails for a manicure (no polish) Sometime I think just staying clean and trying not to sweat is a major beauty accomplishment for me. When I went through my "big hair' stage back in the 80's, keeping up a perm with bangs was tough. If anything, I'll apply just mascara and moisturiser for a day around the house. Cupajoe, I wonder if I had that kind of money in highschool, if I wouldn't have done the same thing. I was a narcissus little thing back then...had to keep the package looking good......See MoreIf you are a woman over 50
Comments (72)My DD and I just had a conversation about this - her 5th grade teacher told them that being called "Miss X" or "Mrs. Y" makes some people feel older (she didn't mention what Mrs. B prefers but think it's "Mrs. B..." since that's what DD called her when she mentioned this conversation). I said "well, you're 10 yrs old, they ARE older" and she said "no, like it makes them feel really old." I told her it was a sign of respect, and that I expected her to call anyone older than she was Miss/Mrs./Mr. as appropriate, unless they asked her to call them something else. I granted that if it was a teenager, it was probably more appropriate to use the first name, but it depended on how they were introduced and what the situation was - a teenaged camp counselor introduced as "Miss X" (first or last name) should be addressed as such until they requested otherwise, but a friend of DS's we see at a meet could be addressed by his first name. I don't really like my kids calling adults by their first names, I do like them to call them "Miss Lori" (or whatever) if we are close enough to be on a first-name basis but not relatives so can't call them aunt or uncle. It's a little weird with my cousins - my uncle's boys are about the age of my kids, I'm their cousin so "Aunt" didn't seem right (though my kids call their parents aunt and uncle, since they're technically their great-aunt and uncle). They call a friend of their dad's "Uncle Bob" but they call me and DH by our first names (and my kids have fallen into the habit of calling Bob "Uncle Bob" too though we're not close). But my cousin's kids call me by my first name, and my kids call my cousins by theirs, it didn't seem right to call each other "aunt" or "uncle" and "cousin" is awkward. Though it does get confusing with multiple generations of "Mikes" - my uncle Mike is "Uncle Mike" to my kids, but my grown cousin Mike is "Mike" and my other cousin (younger than my DS) is "Michael" or "Mike N." What do you prefer kids call adult family members who aren't aunts or uncles?...See MoreFor us woman only - get a kleenex or a box if you cry when laughi
Comments (10)You have got to be kidding. Sorry, I know there must have been all types of physical amd psycho pain going on. But can't stop laughing. Although I was waiting for you to continue the story with having to call 911 and an experience in the emergency room. Thankfully that didn't happen. I'll be sharing this story for a very long time. Can you even walk now? And on a serious side, make sure you use an antibiotic or something to soothe this. Nothing with perfumes, etc. in it. I'd hate to hear something worse evolved....See Morechisue
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