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Comments (39)My grandmother was raised by a mother who was widowed when she was very young...her mother lacked the resources to earn money... My grandmother had to quit school in the 4th grade she could read and write but certainly not well. Her mother also never had a thing growing up....they were poor farm laborers or other laborers. After my grandmother was grown, her mother married a widower who had inherited a few nice things from his wife....and so great grandma inherited them when he died. But since this was in the days before Social Security, she had nothing but some "stuff"....and went to live with my grandmother and grandfather....but my grandfather couldn't stand his mother in law and didn't want her living there, so she went to live with one of her sons....my grandmother's step brothers.....fully 25 years younger than she was. They lived in a one bedroom apartment and Great Grandma slept on the sofa and when they had company who stayed late, grandma laid her head on the kitchen table and tried to sleep. Gradually the "stuff" disappeared, either through neglect or it was sold, all but The Mirror. When my parents moved into a big old 1903 house with a 3rd floor with 3 bedrooms and a bath, they asked my father's grandmother to come live with us. she had her own bedroom and bathroom and room for her little rocker and dresser.....and she arrived with The Mirror under her arm, saying "Where I go this mirror goes"...When she had lived at her daughter's it was in the attic, when at her son's it was under the bed. My parents hung it over the mantle! I have it now....it's over my mantle.....a beautiful wide framed, gold leaf oval mirror. It's now part of my "stuff". Who doesn't prize things like that because Great Grandma who had nothing married a man who's wife came from a family that valued nice things and she valued the mirror as a nice thing that she had never had before? She saw that it wasn't left sitting behind the furnace and during the 5 or 6 years she lived with us, she loved looking at it. Now I love looking at it and remembering how proud grandma was to see HER MIRROR hanging in a prominent place of honor. Apes don't seem to value family history nor things and don't connect things to people who are no longer around. People are reminded of their history by artifacts....humans also have a sense of the aesthetic seemingly lacking in animals. Animals don't have museums where they see how their ancestors lived....perhaps because they are living just like their ancestors did. My daughter uses her grandmother's sterling, I hope she will pass it to her grand daughter. If I had considered it just clutter and sold it for the thousand or so I could have gotten for it, my great grand daughter would not, I hope, be reminded frequently of her great great grandmother's taste in silver. I also have my great grandmother's pie tin, the other great Grandma. It's very chipped granite ware, shallow and only 8 inches. Grandma Kissle used to say "Tis a poor crust that doesn't grease it's own tin."....so true on many levels. It's one of only 2 things I have of her's,....because when she could no longer keep house, her furnishings were considered just "stuff" ( but for the Havaland which her daughter in law snatched!)..The other is a peach pit, filed into a basket....which she gave to me, telling me how her father made it for her. All "things" are not Sterling and gold, but are precious because they cause us to remember that we are products of our ancestors. Annie, if you had a pair of beaded moccasins which belonged to you great grandmother, they would be worth likely a lot more than a service for 8 of sterling.....would you keep them even though they didn't fit your foot?...See MoreSterling Silver Flatwear
Comments (16)Don't try and sell it to a jeweler, you won't get JACK for it. Like if you have a $5000 diamond ring, they will give you $500 for it...so don't even go there! I would leave it to someone but I would ask around and find out who even wants it. My Mom gave me her set of silver because I wanted to actually use it but after I had it for a while, I realized it wasn't made that great(for what I wanted it for) and wasn't comfortable in your hand (if that makes sense). So I gave it back to her so she could give it to someone that would appreciate it more so she ended up asking who wanted it and gave it to my niece and she's happy as can be with it. Now my Mom has passed away and I wish I had her silver...WHAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!! :( Something else to consider, I believe that when someone gives you their things to have and use, it means so much more that they gifted you with something than if you just go through and divide things after your parents pass away!...See MoreSterling silver tarnishing in dishwasher...didn't before??!!
Comments (48)They have changed their formula to remove phosphates. Good for the environment, but bad for your silverware. Suggest you switch brands. There are still some brands e.g. Sunlight Advanced that say they work with silverware. I have also heard on this string that Method Pods work without tarnishing it. A homemade version of Washing Soda and Borax also work for silverware, but it's getting hard to find Borax anywhere also. Apparently it's not so good for people/planet either. I think with the Pewter it's going to be trial and error as well. If you find something that works, let us know....See MoreIs it possible to decorate with porcelain, crystal and silver anymore?
Comments (31)A Craftsman house in my area in the 1920's or so would have had a treasured item or three displayed on the dining table. Curtains would have been opened all the way to make the sunlight brighten the room. Try picking three new items per month to rotate on display. Another Craftsman display feature was a plate rail. And of course, there are many wall mounted curio shelves with glass doors that can be installed at eye level for your LLadro and Beleek. Add battery operated LED lights that are motion activated if you have a dark room. Some people use their Beleek to hold flowers or as catch-alls on the kitchen window sill. It works for some people who don't have rambunctious sink users. A bit of museum putty may help the stability....See Morekl23
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