what are you afraid off? It's just getting closer to Turkey time...

OklaMoni

2 years ago

Yes, it froze.

Yes, I pulled all my tomatoes off.

Yes, I had my cold frames ready... and the stuff in there is good.

How are you all doing with this roller coaster weather?

Moni

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OklaMoni
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2 years ago

and how about a bonus? My BIG baby... LOL

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karoliberty OKC zone 7a
2 years ago
WOW hazel!! Black bean sweet potato burritos is a whole mood, we would make them to freeze but end up eating too many ourselves before getting them put back. MMM.
hazelinok
2 years ago
We use Cookie and Kate's recipes almost every week. Try her Black Bean and Sweet potato Enchilada recipe and see what you think.

Often I'll do a side of meat for the meat eaters in the house, but with this one, they don't miss the meat.
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slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
Jennifer, that looks nice. We have not knowingly cooked any Oklahoma Reds. I got purple and O.K. Reds mixed when I was growing out slips, and my helper was helping me harvest, and did not know there were two kinds of sweet potatoes growing in the same row, so I did not do a good job sorting them. I now know them well enough to sort out O.K. Reds, purple, and Covington for next years slips.

We just came from Walmart, and sweet potatoes were $.64 per pound, about the cheapest produce in the store, and they might get cheaper later.

Jennifer, thanks for posting the picture.
jlhart76
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In theory, we close on OKC tomorrow morning. Once that's done & we get Shawnee inspection done, we can move forward to close on it. And then I can unpack! Oh, who am I kidding? First thing I'll probably do is start digging the garden.
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Jen, that is funny, and sounds like fun, but I wouldn't trade places with you even though I am crazy about digging in the dirt.

We have not got anything done in the past two days. We cant stay from the doctors and clinics. We have had nice weather the past two days, but looks as though it is turning wetter and cooler.
hazelinok
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Jen, I'm been thinking about you a lot. Are you staying at the Shawnee house now?

Larry, you're welcome. You asked a few times about my Oklahoma Reds and tonight was the first time I used them.

I'm going to rethink sweet potatoes and how I grow them next year....

For the first time in years, I have no volunteer cilantro coming up in the fall...and actually had to buy some!
slowpoke_gardener
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Jennifer, I have to rethink everything about gardening every year, I think that is how you get better at it. I thought that I was going to quit growing potatoes all to gather a few years ago, but I am still at it. My ground is so wet in the winter and spring, plus I have so much clay it makes getting the soil ready in the spring a tough job.

Jennifer, you may want to try Covington sweet potatoes next year. I already have purple, and Red Wine Velvet potatoes growing for next year. The Red Wine Velvet were slow to produce slips this year, so I got an early start, I hope I can keep them going all winter.
Lynn Dollar
2 years ago
Hi Y'all ...........

Pulled all your tomatoes ?

For the first time I have fall tomatoes. I normally take my plants out around Labor Day and plant a winter cover. But not this year. I planted a new variety for me, Beefmaster , and two of the plants are still producing.

So , should I be pulling tomatoes before a freeze ? Will they ripen indoors ? I've not had any luck ripening tomatoes before they start to " blush " . Is there a trick to that ?
HU-422368488
2 years ago
You should pick all your tomatoes before a freeze , green or ripe. cause you're going to lose them anyway. Some people will pull the plants and hang them up in the garage to let the tomatoes ripen. You could pick the greens ones and put them in a paper sack to ripen. For me it's sort of hit and miss. Some will ripen , some will soften up and rot.

I also like to fry green tomatoes. Just slice them up , dip them in cornmeal or flour , slice up some onions to mix with them ,maybe a few peppers if you have them... throw in some bacon if you want and stir fry it all. Great way to end the tomato season.

Rick
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
I am with Rick. I think I like fried green tomatoes better than ripe ones. The ones I pick in the fall often dont last long enough to ripen. My wife likes ripe tomato sandwiches, I like fried green tomato sandwiches. Our green and ripe tomatoes are gone.
AmyinOwasso/zone 6b
2 years ago
I lost a post where I said basically the same thing Rick said. You COULD cover the plants with a couple of layers of frost blankets, however, Persephone days begin Nov 26 for me and end Jan 17. These are short daylight days when things don't grow much. They're on hold till they have daylight. http://www.motherofahubbard.com/persephone/

Ron planted garlic and onion sets yesterday. I think he planted them much closer together than I would. I've never done sets before. But he's doing all the work, so I have to let go of control.

Took the grandbaby to Bartlesville yesterday to take my sister out to lunch. My brother came from OKC, too, and DIL went with us, it was her birthday. Weather was good. The boy behaved well. He was really tired when his mom came for him.

Jen, fingers crossed that there are no more problems in closing!
jlhart76
2 years ago
Amy, you didn't cross your fingers hard enough. 15 minutes before we're supposed to go in, our realtor calls. All her calls begin with "...(sigh, deep breath)...hi Cliff..." The [fill in your favorite expletive] wait until now to negotiate on the carpet allowance. This has been a dumpster fire for the last 2 months. But we've signed, buyers are going in at 4 to sign & we have to go back to pick up our check, and then we're done with OKC. I hope.
dbarron
2 years ago
last modified: 2 years ago
So it still sounds like at 4, you're done?

You really really deserve to at least go out and celebrate with dinner (or some other form of indulgence).
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
Amy, its nice that you give in a little on the control. I know it is hard to give up. I am facing some of the same thing, but my neighbor says that I am not giving up, and that he going to come and get me and just let me ride around in the side by side and boss him. Neighbor has taken a liking to some of the things that George has sent me, like Roselle, Arabat pumpkin, Old Timey Cornfield pumpkin, and Seminole pumpkins. He has done a god job of selling my butternut also. I will be starting him out on some of the sweet potatoes I got from George next year. This year I did not have enough slips of George's sweet potatoes to share with neighbor, but I gave him a bunch of Covington slips, which gave him around 650 pounds of sweet potatoes.

My greens are going crazy. I picked some to feed the donkeys today. I try to pick some of the larger leaves to allow room for new growth. I really like the Florida Broad leaf mustard, we only have a 20' row of it, but it produces more than Madge and I can eat, and the kids don't like it. I also have 3 other 20' rows of greens, but we eat of of the mustard the most.

I have 30+ 50' rows of turnips in the wildlife garden, and neighbor is still selling them for $20.00 a bushel. If we can live on greens, we wont go hungry this year.

Well, I need to shut up and get to work, I have just been rambling anyway.
Kim Reiss
2 years ago
Larry I like the rambling the most. I really miss Dawn’s ramblings. She could fill a page
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
Kim, I miss Dawn also, I think of her often. I think dawn was the only one that could see through my b.s. , she always had a reply.

I never grew up. My neighbor and I both have side by sides, and we are like 10 year old kids on our bicycles, he is always in my wildlife garden, I have told him that he could have all the stuff that I don't want. In turn he helps me a lot, there are so many things I have a hard time doing anymore.
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2 years ago
Me to Larry. I bought some beautiful wrought iron fencing and then realized I can’t handed it alone so I sold it. Doubled my money but still made me sad. Someone else is very happy.
I need neighbors like you that work trades instead of having to hire people
jlhart76
2 years ago
We are, officially, done with OKC. Now to close Shawnee.

But on a gardening note, someone posted on facebook that they had a bunch of tomatoes. When I found she was 15 minutes from where we were for closing, I made Cliff stop so I could pick them up. So for the first time in 2 years, I have real tomatoes to enjoy.
hazelinok
2 years ago
Yay, Jen!

I saw your FB post and the tomato picture. My neighbor had tons of leftover green tomatoes she was trying to push off on people, but it was right before we left for Broken Bow and honestly I didn't feel like dealing with them. Or arranging a time for someone I know to come get them. I don't always mind being the "middleman" but sometimes it's exhausting.

I'm super happy those tomatoes found you! And what a bonus that they were 15 minutes away!

We're still holding on to that grow enclosure if you still want it. No rush or hurry, though.

Aw, Kim, sorry you had to let go of your fencing. It was so cool....but, I'm glad you made money on it.

I, too, was thinking about Dawn today deeply. I was thinking about how all of us have traits of Dawn--each of us have different traits of hers, but we all have them.

And some of us might become more like her with time.

In a bit, I might go back and read my last private messages with her. The very last one (about 4 days before her death) was me just checking in on her. She assured me that she just had a "wicked cold" that she picked up from one of her grandgirls.

I love the way she always acknowledged everyone who posted here.

IF I didn't work outside the home, I feel like I would be more attentive to other in the same way. That would be one of my traits of hers.

What are your traits of Dawn's? Question for all of you.

Larry, I wish I could tour your place and garden.
jlhart76
2 years ago
Yes, I'd still like it. Just let me get closed here, then maybe set up a time to meet up?
hazelinok
2 years ago
No rush at all, Jen. After the holidays is fine. It's here whenever you're ready for it.
OklaMoni
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Dawn writing about the Persephone days and Christmas decorating

https://www.gardenweb.com/discussions/5829388/november-2019-week-4#n=15

and Lynn, nope, haven't pulled my tomato plants yet... but I did pull all my tomatoes before the FREEZE on Saturday. I am not a fan of fried green tomatoes...and mine are laying on cookie sheets in the garage, except the ones my daughter took with her. We both have a lot of ripe tomatoes.

Kim, OH MY GOSH... you sold the fencing... that makes me sad.

Jen, I wish I had known you were close to me.. LOL, NW 67th and May you could have had just about all my green tomatoes too.

got much more to tell... but it will have to wait.

Good night all. :)

Moni
slowpoke_gardener
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Jennifer, my place is not much, but I am proud of it. I worked on this place as a child. We moved here in 1952, I was the oldest child and tried to work along with dad. Of course I was not a lot of help, but I though I was over 7' tall, and dad was over 10'. We started out working with horses, I was too small to manage the horses we had, but dad managed to get two old tractors, and I got to drive the smallest one, boy, I was in tall cotton then.

We managed to pay the place off in under 2 years, but dad died of cancer at 35 years of age. I was left with a big hole in my life, but that hole was partly filled by me being able to care for mom in her later years.

When mom gave me the place I started clearing out unwanted trees and brush, and having bulldozer and excavator work done in some areas. Like I said, the place is not much, but its home, and at times I think I can hear dad say, "son the place looks like I always wanted it to look". I plan on passing the place to my daughter because she is the only one of my kids that that would even think about caring for it.

I would like to make a video of what I have done, and what I would hope to do, but I don'

t know how, and the place does not look as well as it did because I have been renting it out and renters just don't care for things as well as a person does if they own it. I doubt this will post, I was playing around with the computer trying to find a picture. This is not what I wanted, and it is not a good picture anyway, but it is a picture of our fur baby calendar,
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
I may be the only one dump enough to be out working in the garden this morning, but it is beautiful here. It is 49* with the sun shining and no wind yet, the win will be much stronger after 10:00, but nice now.

I am so glad I had the foresight to make very strong tomato trellises, I use them more and more for handrails. I clear the tomato and peppers, and any other summer crop out early enough to plant a winter crop out about a foot from the trellis, then use the trellis for a support so I can lean over and support my weight on the lower trellis. This lets me use my Japanese weeder to work around the plants without killing my back. By the winter crops out away from the trellis permits me to go ahead and plant my summer crop early next spring even if the winter crop is not quite ready to harvest.
Lynn Dollar
2 years ago
Its a great day here in south OKC also, 50* , sun, no wind. I got the smoker fired up and putting beef ribs on soon. As long as the wind doesn't blow and I get radiant heat from the sun, I'm good.
HU-422368488
2 years ago
My traits of Dawn. Her thing about pushing boundaries to get things (like tomatoes, onions etc..) planted out extra early in the spring was what I related to the most.

Rick
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
I push boundaries also, but it is not that I plan to, I just cant get anything done on time.

I got most of my north and south gardens tilled. They did not need tilling, but I am going to try keeping some ground bare, in hope that I can at least plant some of my crop on time next spring.
Kim Reiss
2 years ago
HU I learned a way to get tomatoes out 4-6 weeks early from the farm I worked for in Lubbock. Out of 150 plants I lost one. We had wind hail snow sleet etc and they thrived.
Kim Reiss
2 years ago
I will type it out and pray here. It’s a long explanation
Nancy RW (zone 7)
2 years ago
I have NO idea why OK GW made my life so difficult the past several days, denying me access to my friends’ posts! But I finally have it all now and so will be backtracking.

Moni—that is a LOT of tomatoes—especially for an erstwhile gardener who is usually off playing on bike rides or hiking.

I’m still so thankful to you for your “getting into shape” advice, and have taken it to heart. But now have run into a roadblock—the cooler weather! I am such a sissy with cold weather. That makes no sense whatsoever—me, having lived in really cold temperatures for the first 66 years of my life. In Minneapolis, I took the bus to work, mostly. Monthly parking in downtown Mpls was around $120/mo, more if in a heated area. However, as I began making more money, I often DID resort to driving in the coldest temperatures. No matter how it was sliced, however, it was miserable commuting to work. (And I had it easy—I lived fairly close, in a northeast suburb—normally a 15-20 minute drive.) I lived fairly close to my bus stop, too—only 3 blocks away. But at 6:15 a.m. in the dead of winter and snow and ice, and -10 to 20 degrees, still a LONG walk—there are more sordid details to this commute, but you get the idea.

Where was I. . . oh yes, going for walks in the cooler weather. It’s going to take some determination to see that through. But I will say that I feel so much better when I walk, even when I don’t feel like it. Garry went with me yesterday. So did Titan. So did Tiny. We had to end up going back home prematurely because dogs in the surrounding area weren’t happy and were trying to distract Titan. SO we cut the walk short, put his leash on, and then took a short walk in the other direction. By which time Tiny decided to heck with us all and dropped out.

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I just now googled Hochatown, HJ! Had no idea it was so far from you. Way down there ! Sounded lovely. Well, right here we have the trees—but no pond—a run-off stream. We need a lovely pond!

You really sent me off on memories and thoughts regarding Dawn--I've many of boths, but those will wait a bit.

I’m glad you’re done with OKC, Jen, but will feel better when you’re done with Shawnee, too!

I’m going to sign off on Part one now. . . I’ll pick it up later. Hugs to you all.
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Nancy. Not everyone. I still have no windows lol
hazelinok
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Moni, I did a lot of rambling on that thread. haha.

Songs about Persephone kept playing on Spotify today. I've heard a couple of them in the past but had no idea there were so many. The one from Kellianna and another one called Persephone's Descent are the ones I've heard. I guess she is descending. I looked and tomorrow is supposed to be 10:09 hours of daylight.

Your place sounds amazing, Larry. And what a cute little turkey.

Lynn! I was just thinking about you a couple of days ago...wondering how you're doing.

Do you have cilantro coming up? Mine has disappeared. Normally I have a lot of volunteers in the fall and spring.

I don't mind walking when it's cold really. Josi needs the exercise. It's just near impossible to get home in time to walk her when it gets dark so early. I barely get the chickens fed. Once it's dark, they go to bed so you have to feed them while it's still light.

Nancy, yes, Broken Bow is quite a trip for us. I just love it, though. I hate that's becoming the next Branson.

I have had a headache all day so am considering going to bed early. Work was very full. I started a project that I wish I hadn't because I don't have the skills to do it myself and must depend on others. I hate depending on others in this way. I did my part back in the summer trying to get ahead...and here we are a month away from Christmas and it's incomplete. Never again.

What does anyone know about Hawthorn trees?

I think I'll come back with some pictures. I need an ID. I think it's a beauty berry.
hazelinok
2 years ago
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Beauty Berry?

Just a couple of pictures from our forest walk.
Nancy RW (zone 7)
2 years ago
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Yep, beauty berry. Fun pics.

Speaking of needing IDs. One of the reasons I look forward to seeing Danny on Saturday. I'm going to make him do my 1/2 mi. walk with me and point out all the invasives for me. (I know callery pear and Chinese privets because there are hundreds upon hundreds--but I know there are others, too, and I don't know my trees and shrubs all that well.

Still thinking of the Dawn question. It has taken most of my attention today.
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
Nancy, what are the plans for Saturday? Madge and I are still planing to be there. It will take us a while, the computer is telling me it is 115 to 130 miles, depending on the route we take.
Nancy RW (zone 7)
2 years ago
Larry and Madge! So excited that you may make it! So that's about 2 hrs. Danny will be arriving early--probably about 10:30-11. He needs to leave by 3 pm or so, because he doesn't like to drive in the dark. Amy says Ron and she will get here about 1. Eileen and Larry won't get here til 3:30-4. REBECCA???? LOL She probably won't make it, I'm thinking.

HJ. . . I/we didn't expect any one from the central to west side to make it over, but if any of you can, YES!

Garry Dean and I are nothing if not casual. We'll just be lounging about visiting. . . I'll have my pork shoulder roasted, plenty of snacking kind of stuff. . .Let me ask you--what time would you LIKE to get here? That's what we'll plan on. Hugs.
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
It sounds like fun. We will have to leave early also, we really dont do well at night either.
Kim Reiss
2 years ago
Moni it made me sad too. I just had to be honest with myself. Now I see it set up at the neighbors she is using it for an apiary I believe. It will be amazing.
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
Our min/max said it was down to 23 last night, I doubt that, but we did have a really hard frost, and the temp is climbing fast, the same thermometer now says 35.
AmyinOwasso/zone 6b
2 years ago
I think I am like Dawn with links. She always had a link. I started saving them in Evernote, which has been updated to the point it's not convenient to use any more. I'm using a "notebook" app now. Many of the links are ones she shared here that I saved.

Looking forward to tomorrow!

Jen, I will not jinx you by crossing my fingers for Shawnee.

Nancy, are there any indoor places to walk? I know no malls, but a basketball court? Not as interesting. You need a buddy to talk to then. I love going to the pool, but I'm also not thrilled with cold, so I get it. I think you paid your dues with cold weather.

Have a good weekend everyone.
dbarron
2 years ago
Yes, or a good dog helps too (to walk, ask me how I know)? Good thing that most weeks at least once a week (even in winter) we can get outside (benefit of the South).
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago

I thought this was a pretty plant, I guess it was in the detroit red beets. I have been trying to clean the gardens a little, the henbit is taking over.
Nancy RW (zone 7)
2 years ago
I don't think I have any Dawn traits. Wait! I know. Like Dawn, I have a keen intuition and appreciation for experts! I believe that should speak for itself, but will clarify. When I got down here and saw how different growing conditions were than in MN, I spent hours and hours googling questions for growing in OK. Almost always, the top google result was Houzz OK Gardening's Okiedawn. True. And so I began lurking, reading everything she said, then finally jumped in with my own questions.

I have the best saying I have used since I was 44. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear. And then the other trick to that is to recognize that teacher when he/she does appear. Dawn referred many of her expert teachers (authors) to the rest of us, and now we all refer our teacher Dawn to many others.

How very very fortunate to have found her!
Lynn Dollar
2 years ago
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Jennifer, I'm doin good. Haven't put much time into the garden these past few months. Been on a low carb diet and I found it to really be a low energy diet. I lost weight but it wasn't any fun. First time in years I've not planted a winter cover in my garden and I've not even cleaned out any plants. But that diet ended last month and I'm feelin lot better.

But dang, I've got cilantro .... everywhere. I had an amazing amount of volunteer. The last week of July, I gathered some seed and planted it, but that bunch bolted. But right next to it, I've got a volunteer crop. And its scattered around in my garden and even have a plant in a flower bed on the other side of the yard.

Here's a couple pics of my cilantro. There's my garlic in the fore ground, then my volunteer cilantro, then my bolting cilantro , I've even got cilantro coming up volunteer in the yard.
slowpoke_gardener
2 years ago
I agree. I am not sure I have any of Dawn's traits either, other than, I dont want to give up.

Another thing I would like to add, is, one size wont fit all. You have to adjust you growing habits to fit your environment, location and microclimate. I have a friend that lived less than a mile from me, and had at least a month longer growing season than I do. The mountains on each side of me cuts down on the amount of sun I get, and because I am in the base of the valley, I get excess water at times. As I think about it, Dawn and I had a lot in common as far as growing conditions, I think she lived in a low area also.
hazelinok
2 years ago
Thank you for sharing your Dawn traits. :D

Lynn, that is usually how my cilantro is at this time of year--coming up everywhere! It's absent this year. Don't know what happened.

I'm glad you're feeling better with the addition of carbs back into your diet. Low carb isn't for everyone. It works wonderfully for some people and not at all for others. Some say it has to do with your blood type.

Kim, I'm glad you still get to see "your" fence and enjoy it that way.

Feverfew? Has anyone used it for medicine. I got a plant from Jen at the SF. It's a pretty little plant. I've wanted one for years. Today I remembered that feverfew is used to treat headaches. Luckily mine didn't freeze last night so I was able to grab some leaves and flowers to make a tea. It's a bitter tea for sure, although I added honey.

I also got my fire cider strained and honey added. It's ready to use. I'm irritated at myself for letting it go so long. I suspect my headache is sinus related. Normally I'll start taking fire cider at the first sign of a sinus headache BUT mine wasn't ready yesterday.

We got our first real freeze last night. It took out the tomatoes and peppers and other things.

Friends, enjoy your gathering tomorrow. Have a lot of fun and make a lot of memories. Take pictures.
dbarron
2 years ago
Well, I'm about 1 hour 45 from heading out. Nancy better be up and have the vacuuming done before I get there (she threatened me with vacuuming at 1:15 am this morning, if I got there early). I think if she hasn't we leave Tiny to do the vacuuming while we walk around identifying things. Just tie the vacuum to his tail and he'll cover the whole house in no time! :)

I'm assembling an orange cake-pudding (think poor man's souffle) on site for the luncheon meal. I have creme fraische (hopefully) I'm bringing, or maybe I have runny sour cream (not sure yet)..it has been cool and I kinda didn't get it started when I had planned (Thursday afternoon).

Jasper and I will be ready to go meet you folks that are coming. It will be his longest car ride, and while I think he'll ride fine, I just wonder if he will get bored...I think I'll pack his rope toy and maybe that will quell him. We'll stop just a bit west of the West Siloam Springs area where there's a last road side stop before we get on the Turnpike for doggie necessary reasons. I kinda miss the services area where there was a gas station, grassy area, cafe, etc not long after you got on the Turnpike, I wonder why they decided it was best to shut it down totally ?

Ok, everyone, reconsider and come meet and eat with us. (lol)
Nancy Waggoner
2 years ago
oops. . . . I had this big ole pork shoulder roast that should roast for about 8 hours. EIGHT hours! So I stayed up until 3:30, started it at 450 for a half hour, then turned it down to 250 and I'll take it out at 11 or 12.

I made banana pudding (from scratch!! with milk, cornstarch, egg yolks) for the first time ever, got the vanilla wafers nicely lined around the glass bowl so they'd look pretty. Got it all assembled and then realized I forgot the bananas! Plan B--get out second bowl. Spoonfuls of pudding (and wafers), layer of bananas, more globs of pudding (and wafers), repeat until done. The nicely placed wafers are scattered through the pudding willy nilly.

There won't be a crowd today, for sure--Amy and Ron, Danny, maybe Larry and Madge, Eileen and Larry but not til 4-ish (at which time Danny will be gone); no word from Rebecca, so I suspect she won't be here. If any of the rest of you find yourselves with an empty Saturday, come on over!

The only indoor place I can think of to walk, Amy, is Walmart. And that'll do, as long as I get in there kind of early so there aren't many people. Oh--I could go to Lincoln, too. It would probably be more fun, with all kinds of rooms to walk in and out of.
jlhart76
2 years ago
HJ, feverfew is better as a preventive than as a cure, people who swear by it say you should drink a little daily to keep from getting migraines. I went through a spell where I drank a cup of herbal tea every day and it seems like I had fewer migraines during that time. I think chewing a couple fresh leaves can help if you take at onset, too. I'll have to look through my notes if I ever get unpacked.
hazelinok
2 years ago
Thanks, Jen. I'm pretty sure I had a sinus infection type of headache because my ears felt congested too. It's much better today. Maybe it was the feverfew or the fire cider. Whatever it was, I am thankful the headache is gone.

I did read that feverfew can also help with sinus headaches, so maybe next year I should start chewing a leaf or two a day.