If you keep plugging away long enough...I finally found what I was looking for in this posting from the Glue Warehouse. These folks seem to have it all together (including next day shipping via warehouses that are a day away from 99% of any location in the country according to them). I really like smart and they seem smart. Slight downside is I need to buy 10 kits, but the total is only $15. They also have the construction grade 100% silicone adhesive that is the first hassle in proceeding with this project (no, neither of the big boxes has it that I could find). Anyone need an undermount hardware kit? I'll try to post the successful conclusion to this. Thanks for the input. I also had help from AskTheBuilder (http://www.askthebuilder.com/undermount-kitchen-sinks/) that did the best job of laying out the requirements and making me feel that this is an eminently doable task. Just wish I could get my wife to be happy with the delay in figuring it out and implementing! Here is a link that might be useful: Glue Warehouse blog

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I have multiple finishes in my kitchen and I like it that way! My refrig and DW are stainless; my stove is a 1948 O'Keefe & Merritt white enamel with as much polished chrome on it as a 50's Cadillac; the cabinet pulls are polished brass. The faucet on the sink is brushed nickel with polished brass trim, and I have a display above one cabinet of polished antique copper. And it ALL works!

Just do all pulls - D shape, closed ends and not a pocket catcher. Pulls look great on uppers as well. It isn't even a decision you need MAKE right now!!! People go for weeks with a tab of masking tape affixed to the backside of doors and drawers while they decide hardware, look, size, finish et al. Your pressure is "self inflicted" : ) and as for sizing and finish? Nowhere will you find more options than Top Knobs, with great quality as well