I love the curtains, too. It’s easiest to buy bedding first p, then the other decorative items. Your next step is to find a bolder color for the bedding. You’ve got some great options color-wise in the curtains also you can use the pattern shapes to repeat. Some art, colorful pillows and perhaps a colored rug.

LOVE the curtains. Make the rest of the room rise to them!! I am not so sure the rug under the bed is up to it at this point.

So you think the blue bed and bench are ok? I can change the rug for sure, just no idea what will look good there

New bedding and lamps may just do it for you. The bed and bench will work. I think it's possible the rug might as well. I'd lose the white fluffy rug and look for some art after you find the bedding. I think the bedding should be simple to let the curtains shine. Lamps too - maybe just a simple glass lamp? They sell some nice ones at IKEA. Another approach on the rug would be to relocate the one you have and get something much larger - either a rug or just some bound carpet. The floor is distracting and I might be looking to calm that down by covering the vast majority of it.

New bedding to go with those drapes and IMO a coverlet in a color fom the drapes is a better choice than a sloppy duvet The rug is too busy the drapes are the star so keep everything else simple I think a throw on the chair in also a color from the drapes . BTW the drapes need to be hemmed and ironed

I have some white bedding or at least mostly white maybe I'll change the sheets and see if it improves. I do have two Bedside tables coming they are white with wood handles. And yes need to get some bedside lamps ours broke during the move

Love the curtains with the floor. I think you can postpone worry about ironing until you have finished moving in. ;)

The duvet must stay I hate normal sheets.abd yes someday I will have time to iron!

I would leave the curtains to the sides and get a simple shade for privacy.

The drapes are way too busy for a bedroom where calm is required.

What do we think about a large beige shag rug?

Or blue shag rug?

Or like this??

Or shag

It's a fun pattern, reminds me of sail boats. I do think it's a lot for such a large space. I like the idea of pulling them to the side and having shades or you could do a double curtain rod with a white layer, or take the fabric and sew it into something else like pillow covers. I thinking adding plain or simple patterns that tie in the colors would help balance the room.

I love the boldness of the pattern in your drapes. Can I make a suggestion? Take one of the drapes down and throw it on your bed. I think the fabric would make a fabulous cover for your bed! Pick one solid color from the drapes and buy a fun shag rug for your floor. The blue would be great. ART for your walls pulling out those colors from the drape. Bold posters. Small ethnic hangings, etc. I like where you are going with the brass lamp. This should be fun and funky. What kind of window is behind your draperies? Short? Sliders? Perhaps a bamboo shade would do the job and add another texture to the mix…

Replace the curtains. Waaayyyy too much!

Visuals for you

I think they are really fun, but agree that you need some more color in the bedding and/or rug. I don't understand the notion that things in a bedroom need to be "quiet." If you're in there to sleep, your eyes are closed.

Well over the weekend I bought this rug. May have been a mistake. If it is too much I'll put it in another room and go aqua colored shag.  It hasn't arrived yet but I'll see how it looks when it gets here and post update pics.

I agree with Olychick. When lights are low, all colors are muted. An energizing pattern is good for getting up and going in the morning. Choose an intense color from the curtains for the duvet cover.

Sorry but no go with rug. This is a competing pattern and distracts from curtains. You need a more free form color blended rug with no strong designs. Modern with soft lines.

Sharon Fullen- something like this? I'm not sure what modern with soft lines means!! I do think the other rug will end up elsewhere :( or maybe I can return it.

Sharon and I had the same thoughts and for an example of modern/soft lines, I think the photo in my previous post may help.

I love the drapes, but a little goes a long way.

Open them up and add blinds. A simple rug with no pattern (your floor has too much pattern), Bedding with no pattern, Add art, add throw pillows, Add lamps.

@Maureen gave you great advice.

Can you get a picture with the curtains pulled back and daylight coming in? The ceiling light is extremely harsh and unflattering, and makes it difficult to get a feel of things.

One thing for sure I'd consider is painting the walls a softer off-white color. It would really compliment the room and features better than bright white, I think.

With the busy patterns/tones of both the curtains and your flooring, yes, I’d go for a neutral, solid, soft rug with a bit of texture.

Only posting this as an example, you can find many similar ones in varying price ranges:

https://www.rugs-direct.com/Details/CalvinKleinHome-Riverstone-CK940/141591/228007

Beige:

Gray: