I think the AF-150 Cotswald under the AF-220 may lokk nice and the terracotta might change the look of the pink making it more of a coral.

The problem with painting wood paneling is that you can never go backwards. I can sympathize with getting visually bored, even with a beautiful home like yours. Sometimes one wants a change to add some excitement. BUT, once you do it you're stuck with it. And I would really hate to see those walls painted. I'd like to suggest two changes: 1) I like nosoccermom's first suggestion of sheetrocking the ceiling between the beams. I'd talk to a contractor to ask if that is something that can be easily removed later. The fact is, styles change and the next homeowner - or even yourself, after another 15 yrs have gone by - might want that all-wood ceiling style back again. 2) I agree with aprilneverends that your home seems serious underlit. We finished a MBR remodel in late 2015 and the biggest improvement we made was the installation of a high-power LED lighting system. Interestingly, it went in first, and even before we did any other improvements, the improved lighting made a HUGE difference. That wasn't just our opinion, btw - even the various contractors agreed! One other point I just thought of: In nosoccermom's first photo, you'll notice the slightly darker wood floor really makes the patterned rugs "pop". Your beige carpeting so mutes the rugs, at least from the photos, I had to go back and look at them again to realize how beautiful they really are. Anyway, I agree - your "before" photos are what many folks would love to have as is!

Consider a cream or a green with gray undertone or gray with green undertone. Cool grays with warm woods are often a miss, but green grays, which are usually warmish, seem to help bridge the cool / warm divide. A warm wood kitchen combined with lots of white can also be a calm place. These cabinets are not alder - but it is calm and would be calmer if the grout was a lighter gray or even white: You don't show the sink wall, but with all that storage along the fridge wall, you might remove some sink wall cabinets and leave more open area. Put up some calm and pretty artwork instead. This kitchen is also not alder, but the increased window and decreased cabinets make for a calm and pretty space: You don't need to tile the walls - just a pretty painted wall with some pretty calm art would work. Before you paint the cabinets, look at the possibility of calming other surfaces, especially the backsplash if it is at all busy. This is one green gray which might work. I might do a slightly lighter shade.

The cat's name is Arthur, or just "cat". He's Siamese, and was the inspiration for our white/tan/brown/blue palette. The wall color is Glidden "Delicate White" - it's just off-white enough that it doesn't feel harsh and our pure white trim still pops. Not a huge fan of Glidden as a base (it's very thin) but it came out too white when we tried to switch to Behr.