My much maligned (by me) Lady in Red is redeeming itself
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Comments (38)Oh little lady! Around here it's used when men mean to be polite & is most often used by men of a certain age. When we were living in Dallas a young couple bought a the house next to ours. It had been vacant for about a year & before that was a rental property, so it wasn't in the best shape. One Saturday the parents of the husband were there helping to work on the house. The dad was scraping paint off the outside woodwork & soffits as I was leaving to run some errands. I told him he should be wearing a face mask as the pain probably contained lead. He sort of blew me of with the attitude of "this woman doesn't know what she's talking about" & I went on my way with my own stereotype thinking he was a stupid geezer. The next weekend he was back & he stopped me during my work in the front garden. He told me that I had been right! That he had gone home & the next day was coughing up all sorts of "junk" that he'd inhaled. He looked at me & said, "I just told my misses, that little lady knew what she was talking about" Yeah, I was the little lady, but he was also admitting that he was wrong & I was right, so how could I get angry?...See MoreI think I my passiflora hybridized itself?
Comments (20)RetiredFL - the Lambiekins (or so she was tagged - see photo) contributed to the alternating petal colors. The rest was Mother Nature's cocktail. I'm new at this too, but my marked vine - which is growing in a massive LM mess, continues to produce the same flowers. I tagged the vine that produced the first odd bloom the same day and have traced its branches and determined that it is its own plant. Who would have thought - it wasn't an intentional cross - just a happy coincidence that I had two passiflora that append to me planted in proximity to one another....See MoreCan my papaya pollinate itself?
Comments (21)I have a 10 ft male tree, driving a nail into it can change the sex? Does the type of nail matter? Galvanized or plain steel? I'd like to try this on mine. I have a number of small ones started from seed but not flowering yet. Once I know I have some females I'll probably remove the male tree. I was checking the garden at sunset yesterday and the papaya tree had a half dozen large moths feeding on the flowers. At first glance I thought they were small hummingbirds....See MoreWelcome lunch for ladies
Comments (9)It's nice of you to do this for your new neighbor, and I think it's a good idea to float the idea with her first. How much advance notice is appropriate? A couple of weeks is more than enough, I think. Do I have to check with everyone's schedule before finalizing a date? I wouldn't, with more than 3 or 4 people. It will probably be impossible to find a date that EVERYONE can make; so be it. Just pick a date that works for the guest of honor and perhaps the woman you most want her to meet, and just go with that. What would be an appropriate start time? Noon or earlier? It doesn't matter. I'd start at 12 or 1 to give myself more time to get ready. But if for some reason you want to start earlier, say, 11:30, call it brunch. Do I specify a end-of-party time on an invitation? No. I know invited friends will ask what they can bring, but I like to have complete menu control. I want to be generous, and I want the food to be Just So, as in My Way. What do I politely say to gals who offer to bring something? DON'T say anything about "just so" or "my way," which suggests that you think they would bring unworthy offerings. I would say, "Not this time, thanks -- but thanks for offering." I have found that people seem to understand when I put it like that and send a written invitation. If someone drives you crazy insisting, ask her to bring ice or borrow her coffee pot or something. Should I end with coffee as well? I would always offer coffee with lunch, but perhaps you could get away with iced tea instead. What does your group usually do? Are there dietary restrictions I need to accommodate? If you are asking whether you have to plan a kosher, vegan, salt-free, nut-free, wheat-free, sugar-free, no-carb, lo-fat meal just in case someone MIGHT have a problem -- no, you don't! I would probably ask the guest of honor if she has any restrictions, but after that I wouldn't worry about it. People will just skip the things they can't have for religious, health, or ethical reasons. Don't watch what people eat so you won't feel bad when you see someone not eating one or another thing; it's inevitable, so just don't look and then it won't bother you. But it's too large a group to try to plan a menu that will suit everyone, so don't ask everyone. Have a nice party....See Morerifis (zone 6b-7a NJ)
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