If you want to have two matching stands on each side just get two baby dressers like the third photo. They are 36" like you are looking for. They won't clash with the full size dresser you already have. Oak baby furniture is not as common so you will have to do more Googleing to find them. I would not put a solid black or white painted ones in the space. To harsh with oak. If you want to do a painted piec get one with an oak top to blend it in a bit with the oak you have. I think a deep painted color like the second photo could bring in some pop to the room but NOT with two of them painted the same color. That would be overkill. If you are putting a nightstand in front of the window you should stick with swag valances. Swag valance would look cute on the window by the chair. The comforter looks like it leaves a gap at the bottom and does not hit the siderails. I thought it might be the wrong size. I had to live with a full size comforter on a new queen size bed for a long time until I had the money for a queen size one. I thought maybe you were just using this one until you found the right one for the new bed. One thing to consider when shopping for a queen size comforter is that even though is says 'Queen' on the label it may not be the right dimension for the new deeper mattresses they sell now days. Something to look out for when ordering online or through a catalog. Check the measurements. They can vary from manufacturer to manufacturer. Black with oak top dresser nightstands also available:

Sweeby, beautiful bed & dresser - CL?? Wow!! I do like that campaign table but worry if it isn't going to look skimpy next to the headboard. Have you thought about mixing it.....maybe a writing desk on one side & a skirted table for the other.....unifying the look with matching lamps? You could pull up a pretty ladies chair or stool for the desk....maybe needlepoint. Althou, I love the way Boopadoo's table look also. Smiles:) No help just thoughts!

This was over our bed until a week ago. I made it before we acquired our sweet, little brown dog (who now sleeps with us) and it is a huge ordeal to keep it dust and fur free. I was also getting a little tired of all of the gathers & trim. The painting will stay and since I still like the fabric, I'll be re-doing the drapes on either side of the bed from "puddling" rod pockets to floor-length pinch pleats.

this one has side cubbies and front! https://i.pinimg.com/originals/fc/b7/38/fcb738ceb1a1b0c0f77e4159eca860c9.jpg Here's a DIY one that you could make using wooden crates from Michaels, or a skinny bookcase, etc.. https://www.diynetwork.com/how-to/make-and-decorate/decorating/how-to-make-a-headboard-out-of-storage-crates?soc=sharingfb This would need a cabinetmaker, but it's cool--the headboard pulls out. So you could hide stuff during the day.