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Build dream house or be practical?
Comments (20)Option A for many reasons. 1) less remodeling which means less time invested - and time is priceless. 2) best location and this is more important than anything else for real estate. 3) always want to be the smallest (or not the largest) home in a subdivision. Option A provides you this. 4) because interior remodeling, ROA will be great for option A and less costly/time consuming for you then Option B. Also easier to live in Option A while remodeling. 5) option A is much better investment if/when you ever sell. 6) after the kids are raised, you can revisit selling option A and getting your dream house and will get a nice ROA due to location. At that point in time, your new dream house can have new/modern features that we don't even know about today. Even if you chose Option B today, in 20 years, much of it will be outdated. Besides, in 20 years, you might pick a totally different area that maybe the kids relocated to and you want to be near them in the future. 7) option B is so hard/trying that your life would be very stressed for several years. this could cause marital issues and even if it doesn't it takes time away from being with the family just living life. Again - time is priceless....See MoreKids off to college - is it time to build our dream home?
Comments (63)Wow! What amazing words of wisdom - thank you for all your comments. Just to add a little color on some of the questions that were asked: We had our 3 kids very early, so while they are all off to college now my wife and I are still relatively young (48 & 46, respectively). We are still very healthy and active so we probably won't think seriously about retiring until we are around 55 or so. We have been working with an amazing architect over the past several months. He has been incredibly thoughtful in the design and flow of our house. It is absolutely beautiful. We are in the Midwest so part of the square footage includes basement space. The current design has about 3,600 sq ft on the main floor, 1,600 sq on the 2nd floor and about 2,200 finished sq ft in the basement for a total of roughly 7,400 sq feet of finished space. This does not include the 6-car garage, pool area or outdoor space. The first floor is pretty normal - foyer, kitchen, dining room, great room, master suite w/attached laundry, pantry, mud room, office, music room, lanai and a couple of half-baths. The 2nd floor has 3 bedroom suites and a laundry room The basement is where all the "nice to have's reside" For example, we have a large bar area, wine cellar, TV room, fitness room, dry sauna, play room (for future grandchildren), pool bathroom and a bunch of storage. The basement also walks out to a covered outdoor kitchen area which then flows into the pool area. We entertain a ton so we designed the basement to be very open and spacious. We also have a lake house that is a couple hours away. Honestly, we are thinking of selling it because we are not sure we will ever want to leave this house... although I think our kids will protest quite heavily because they love to go to the lake! The house will sit on roughly .75 acres. We fully intend on outsourcing all the landscaping, yard work and pool maintenance. We both have pretty demanding jobs and don't really want to spend all our free time pushing a mower around or cleaning a pool. No offense to anyone - we have done this work for years, but the older we get the less appealing it is. We are installing a geothermal system that will not only heat and cool the house and provide hot water, but it will also heat the pool very efficiently. We are also going heavy with insulation, windows and doors. We had an energy study performed and all indications are that our utility bills should not be significantly higher than our current house. Long story short - we are going to go for it! Maybe in 10 or 15 years it will be too much for us to handle, but until then we are going to squeeze every ounce of enjoyment out of this house and create some wonderful memories with our family. Thank you again to everyone who contributed to this thread. We are sincerely thankful for your input....See MoreMr. Blandings Builds his Dream House
Comments (5)Never read it but the movie is one of my all time faves. The color scene with the wife, builder and painter is priceless and is a great example of what seems to happen to a lot of people in their builds. Oh, you want us to do xyz? Sure, we can do that.... and as soon as the homeowner's back is turned they do it the way they always have....See MoreTear down and build dream home- how to start...
Comments (8)First step is getting a sense of what your budget is. Next - this is a tricky topic here. This board believes STRONGLY in going the architect route. We are doing that, and there was never any question that we wouldn't. BUT it is definitely more expensive. And definitely worth it. But people have different budgets. If you are dealing with a reasonable non-shoestring budget, then yes - DEFINITELY hire an architect. But whether to go to a builder or architect first - there are mixed opinions on this. If a friend has a recommendation for an amazing builder or architect, you should look into them. (If you really think you are going to go with a stock plan instead of an architect - which again, I don't advise - you definitely should interview and choose a builder first. They WILL have specifications on what they will and won't do. If you are looking at eco-friendly, guaranteed if you have a builder who does this without a custom architect it is because s/he builds a very specific design. You're wasting your time and money looking at plans that your preferred builder may not be willing to build.) Otherwise - you say you want eco-friendly. That is not going to be hard to find in Washington State. But it is still something that only select builders and architects do well. If you want to go as energy efficient as possible, you are talking Passive House. Which is expensive. However, it gives you a good framework to start looking for builders. You don't have to go to the expense of pursuing full Passive House requirements. But this will narrow down your search specifically to builders who build eco-friendly homes. Again, this only matters if you are serious about eco-friendly, as in this is the area you would prefer to focus your budget on, as opposed to tile and molding and cabinets and the like. If you are, this is not something a regular builder does. Or at least does well, in my experience. There is a huge difference between a builder who thinks foaming all the walls constitutes a well-sealed home, and a builder who does blower door tests to ensure they have plugged as many tiny leaks in the envelope as they can find. Architecture also plays a big part in designing an eco-friendly home, and there are architects who specialize in it. Again, search for passive house architects or green building architects. (Personally, I would look at builders first if you are SERIOUS about eco-friendly. Sometimes green builders do things in very particular ways, such as SIPS or modular, and you would be better served finding that out first and choosing an architect they work well with.) You will get a good sense of what is out there. Narrow down a list of professionals, and then contact them. You will probably rule several out over the phone, just based on budget requirements and other issues. Then meet with whose left and go from there. They will definitely have answers to your listed questions. And for questions like timeline, those answers will vary quite a bit between builders, so will perhaps play into your hiring decision....See MoreCandace
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