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Ninapearl
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Comments (51)Please contact me DIRECT> Do not post here. Hvrba has been contacted twice and will be adopted. Anyone else.... just let us know by clicking on my name at the top of the message and then on "send me an email" Jody is ill and will not be able to answer you. Please do not post here. Jody, gal we miss you and hope you are beginning to see signs of recovery. Hugs, beth...See MoreDarla, my new foster dog.
Comments (107)I would like to say that it is also possible that the woman who owned the dog before taught the dog to be hostile to men - I think it is wrong to blame men for the problem without knowing the entire history. People very often teach or transfer their own fears/phobias onto their animals, and if a woman shows fear of men when she is walking her dog, the dog will learn that men are not to be trusted. Some women are more paranoid than others, and I have seen this happen in such cases. I think it is more likely that the owner is to blame for the phobia than that the dog was treated badly by a man. If a dog is treated badly by one man, that is not enough to cause a general phobia, but if a woman shows fear of all men that she encounters while walking her dog, then that is a very strong case to make for the phobia coming from the owner. There are lots of dogs who have been trained to be hostile to people of different races, and this is also taught by the owners. I personally think that there are a lot of women who get large dogs primarily because they have a fear of strange men, and this fear may be justified for the women, but when it gets transferred to the dog, it becomes more irrational, since most men are harmless and should not be singled out as untrustworthy people. The men I have known have treated dogs equally as well as women, and yet I have encountered many hostile dogs that were owned by women. My boss has terriers (I forget which type), and one day she asked me to come to her office when she had one of them (I'll call the dog Surrey) in her office and had me wait at the threshold. Surrey barked wildly as I stood at the threshold, but after I entered the office, the barking stopped. Then I took Surrey for a walk. As it turned out, Surrey had a fear of men only at thresholds but was otherwise fine with us. I think this is a fear that could have been learned, but Surrey died a tragic death in the Northridge Earthquake before the dog psychiatrists could determine the cause of the phobia. I think people should be very mindful of what fears and phobia they may unconsciously be transferring to their pets. I also want to say that I think most women do not train their dogs to be hostile to men, but I do strongly believe that there are plenty of women who do. I personally have a phobia of large dogs, due to having been bitten by at least three of them on separate occasions when I was fairly young, but I do appreciate the Great Dane next door that has reduced to squirrel population in my immediate vicinity....See MoreMeet Puja kitten
Comments (18)Lily, I know just how you feel...A few years ago, we had 2 semi feral gals that had litters and actually brought them to us...They lived on our porch and we were able to bond with them...But after a couple of weeks, the mothers would make a noise and all of a sudden the kittens would run after them..They were going to take them into the woods...Several times, my DH would take off running with a big box and gather up all the babies (9) and bring them home...Finally, we put all the babies in the basement and only brought them out for feedings and eventually we were able to wean them..Having 9 furbabies in my laundry room was quite exciting...I spent hours just sitting with them, playing with even reading to them...We found good homes for all but 1 orange tabby and that's my Clancy...After that, I helped with a rescue group and again my laundry room was used as the "cat room". Many hours were spent, almost living in the cage with the ferals that we had rescued. But it got harder and harder to give them up,(kept 2 more) so I had to quit...I really do admire all those "helpers"...It is very satisfying to help those little babies......See MoreStearns and Foster Freedom Pkwy, mattress set
Comments (7)I just bought a Stearns & Foster Estate set at the Macy's outlet in LA. I relied on testing and on the site I've linked below. Despite being a paid ad site, the blogger/expert seems to know his stuff about construction, number of coils etc. I wanted a firm, and while it's only 1 sided (as they all are today), it's firm. I think the quality is excellent. I greatly preferred the S & F to the Simmons Black line. While I don't get the guarantee, I paid under $800 for the set (since I used a credit card, I'm protected by them.) My 2nd choice was buying from Costco, since they're take it back any time. Here is a link that might be useful: The Mattress Expert...See MoreNinapearl
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