Olychick, I totally agree with you about variation and depth. That's what I was going for, even though I know I haven't achieved it yet. I love texture in decorating. I bet softening even just a few of the edges more will go a long way towards what you're saying. This is definitely a work in progress. I really wish the lighting was better. I will dig out my real camera and try to get some better shots. Thanks, rafor. I also agree with you about the sharp edge of the top of the white panel. DH suggested dental moulding, but I don't like that idea. I'm more inclined to put up a thin, one- or two-inch shelf with shells and stuff up there as I describe in my OP to funk up the top of it...haha...love that!

There is a whole range of prices for (recessed lighting < 4" in diameter) ranging from the low $20 - $30 to $160 + per light. The higher output, longer lived ones tend to cost significantly more. For example Juno has 2" recessed lamps (with and without gimbals) that could cost between $120+ to $200. Although pricey, they are well made. For example http://www.lowes.com/pd_635486-38269-2A-930S1-WH___?productId=50249825&pl=1&Ntt=juno+2%22 Gimbals could get out of alignment over time, requiring periodic adjustment. Some basic considerations Are these intended to provide the main lighting? If so, higher output lamps would be needed. The light dispersion - cone of light could be relatively narrow (assuming < 4" aperture) leading to more units. How much glare will you get from the lamps? The CRI (Color Rendition Index) also counts towards the cost. Is dimming important? If so, what is the advertised dimming range and what is the dimmer required? (most likely an ELV dimmer). If an electrician is going to install the lights, the labor cost will be per can and potentially become the dominant cost. The lights will likely be placed around the perimeter of the room i.e. ~ 1' to 2' from the walls.

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I think you're going to want to take your color cues from the finishes you choose for flooring, cabinets, etc., especially in the bathroom. Once you have those, start pulling paint swatches that coordinate and take you in the direction you want to go. I've seen some lovely and classic looking barn doors done, so I'm sure you can pull off the look. I have seen people caution against using them between bedroom and bath though, as you may have more light and noise leakage that you get with a traditional door.