Do you have portraits of strangers in your house?
Lars
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Comments (71)When I was growing up, we lived in a plain, small farmhouse. There was nothing spectacular or charming about it, though I have decent memories of growing up there. Still, I had family members and friends who lived in these prairie box/four square style homes and as a kid, I always thought that these were the coolest houses and I wished I could have lived in one. I can't even pinpoint what things made it cool in my mind, these houses just always felt like "family" to me. I didn't even know back then what kind of house style it was. I did especially love the ones that had a back staircase though, back staircases are so cool! Anyway, we are now raising our family in a four square and to me it is totally my dream house for raising kids, because that is what I always wanted as a kid. Not sure if my kids think it's a dream to live here, but they do mention things they love about growing up in this house. There is no beach front, no huge yard, no lake, not necessarily a charming neighborhood though not bad, not even a cool town, but to me, it still feels like a dream to live here with my family. It is just solid. I didn't get a back staircase though! LOL When we retire, I have a dream of owning a bungalow. That style of house is very cool to me too. Stinky, mentioning the comments that others make reminds me of when we bought this house, and actually still to this day, the crap we took and continually take for paying asking price for our house. We love to laugh about it, knowing how happy we are here. You can't make people understand these things, they just love to judge and think that they could have done it better. It was an awesome decision for us, and we knew that it was worth every penny to us....See MoreDo you/Would you rent out your beachhouse to strangers
Comments (45)Another who prefers renting condos, houses, etc. rather than a motel. We've had great luck and wonderful owners to rent from. Just this year we rented a cottage that had been in the owner's family for many years. It was FILLED with antiques and lots of family items. Gourmet kitchen with many nice items. That was the one where I LOVED the sheets LOL. I could not imagine having all that stuff out - both expensive and sentimental, but apparently they don't have a problem. We've rented for years in Seabrook Island from a couple who live in NJ. And next month we rented a cottage in the mountains of Alabama which is a stone cottage - again filled with antiques, etc. I know we take care of things - but I'm sure there are people who don't and walk off with things. All the places we have stayed, except one in Cashiers, NC, had cleaning services. The couple in NJ keep in touch with us and I am often their "spy" on the cleaning services at that condo. LOL About bedbugs - you can get them anywhere and everywhere. You can even get them in old pieces of furniture. And the fanciest of hotels. It has nothing to do with cleanliness. If you travel anywhere, you are at risk. Many people bring them home in their luggage. NEVER put your luggage on the floor. tina...See MoreWould you share your garden with a stranger?
Comments (7)I confess, my instinctive reaction to reading the thread title was a shoulders hunched, "what do you mean, share?!" However, I did have an arrangement a bit like that a few years back. I rented the second floor flat in a house with a garden, and in exchange for a break on the rent, I sorted out and maintained the garden, landlord supplying the materials. I also fed/ temporarily adopted his his cat as he was abroad for work. That arrangement worked well, because I was only planning to live there for a limited time and he was planning to sell the house, so the garden (weedfilled rectangle of 'grass') needed sorting. Because I knew I wasn't staying I was able to not invest myself in the garden, and make it look ok, even if it wasn't how I would like it. In my experience it's not an unusual arrangement, but it's more commonly done with absentee landlords. I think depending on your area, finding someone willing to do garden chores in exchange for reduced rent would actually be pretty easy. The advice to get it written into the rental agreement is a good one. Finding someone to actively share the garden, in a sympatico fashion will be considerably harder - my advice is to go for the former and see if over time the tenant wants to shift into a more sharer type agreement. Gardens have a way of working on people after all. I was into my thirties before gardening awoke like an inherited disease in my blood....See MoreJust for fun, what do you love but would never have in your own home?
Comments (78)In my new home, I have a housekeeper come every other week. I like clean homes. I do NOT like the actual job of cleaning them. I'd rather work in the garden, or do some cooking, or deal with the chickens, or keep up with physical maintenance and house painting/staining, or do graphic arts or anything else. I'm fine with doing laundry, too. I clean up after myself in the kitchen, but the housekeeper does floors, bathrooms and general dusting/windows and such. And I now have a robot vacuum who is pretty decent at what he does. He even has a name: Sharkey. I'm not crazy about cleaning his filter, but it comes with the territory and lasts five minutes... I didn't have a housekeeper back at my old CT home. One reason my getting out of there and getting the place on the market is taking so long... especially since I then had a full time job that lasted well over the standard 40 hour work week. THIS one will be clean! But it doesn't need to be anally-House Beautiful clean. Simply lived in and tidy. My reasons for not wanting a fully white kitchen or other rooms are not about appearing clean, but about my just only wanting white as an accent. Aesthetically. That's what works for my sense of eye appeal....See MoreLars
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