You need to try samples in your space. I like that Winds Breath has some warmth, but is a neutral without yellow or pink undertones. It may be helpful to consider what colors you are planning to use for your furnishings. Also check the wall color against your flooring. You might also consider BM Pale Oak, which is slightly more griege with green undertones.

The fixture you posted is very far left of modern danish.... my mind went straight to Poulson or sputnik. what you posted is transitional, farmhouse.. As to over the sink, put a recessed light there, it will be the best. Modern danish is very simple and uncluttered in my minds eye. I would go cord-hung or stem not chain. Im also not sold that you need a hanging fixture over both the dining table and the living room, I think the living room would be much better served with some mid-mod floor lamps. for the wall sconces I love Robert Abbey, but if you go to say, Shades of light and type in mid-mod wall sconce a plethora will be there.

Wait until everything is in and complete before worrying about paint. Manchester Tan (if it's the swatch I think it is) looks a little blah to me. The swatches are so far away in your pictures, it's honestly hard to tell. ETA: I see you added the top picture, thank you for the close-up. If your kitchen gets tons of light at all different times of the day, I think you could go a little bolder with your selections. I'm not a fan of gray in your space, but maybe a deeper blue or green could work.

@Abbey, unfortunately all the places I know are much further south. If you are looking for something more custom, I would suggest you check out this company https://interiorstrading.com/home with showrooms in Orlando and Jacksonville. They are "To the trade" , but many showrooms like this will have an in house designer or some designers they will recommend. Someone that can help on an hourly basis and assist in getting you some of the major pieces you want. Usually they are happy to let a retail customer look around and take photos of furniture/fabrics/etc that catch your eye, but won't lend out samples or give prices.