Getting a Dog??? (In Times of Social Distancing...)
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Comments (12)I do not believe that Sadie is aggressive, I think she is insecure and nervous. Sadie is a rescue and while she has been saved physically there is still the psychological damage that must be rehabilitated. It is also important to remember that dog psychology is not human psychology, so while we may want to give affection to soothe a stressed animal, it will only reinforce that state of mind. The three things that will bring balance to your dogs are: exercise, discipline, affection, in that order. Walking the dogs together will form a bond and drain energy. Pent up energy can cause frustration and result in unwanted behaviour. If you have a treadmill Sadie can be trained to walk on it. It doesn't matter which dog is older or who's been living in the house longer, the pack leader must always be the humans. If you are not the pack leader your pack may trust you but they can't respect you and you will have a hard time rehabilitating unwanted behaviour. Dogs in a pack in the wild listen to the pack leader. He/she leads with calm, assertive energy. Dogs understand energy, they coordinate hunts in the wild and don't bark orders to each other. Followers never question the pack leader, if they do he/she will first give a warning and if that isn't effective then they follow through with a touch, a bite or pinning the other dog down. I believe pinning down is what Mazer is doing with his dog. It is not humiliating or punishing (unless you do it with anger or frustration). Done with a calm, assertive energy you wait until the dog submits. On the ground on their side is a submissive position (like lifting our head high and shoulders back makes us feel more assertive) and shows not only that dog but others around that you are the pack leader. But it can be dangerous around unstable dogs (who may attack weakness) and I would never try it without being shown how to do it and where to hold the dog on the neck. When preparing their food no one should be close to you. Make them sit at a distance, give yourself 4 feet or more of space around you, this tells the dogs that you own the food. Then when you are ready to give it to them make them both sit and wait till they are calm, submissive (ears back, not displaying excitement) then feed the calmer one first. Always reward the dog that is the most calm and submissive. Do this in all things, food, rewards, affection. Never play favorites. When you bring a new dog into your home it should be treated equal to the other pets or this can cause dominant behaviour in the favorite one which can lead to bad behaviour from members of the pack. The order in the house should be all humans #1 and all dogs #2. Pack leaders in the wild don't favor any one dog in the pack, they treat all dogs equal. Remember that rescuing a dog is the first step in rehabilitating an abused/neglected dog. Dogs can suffer psychological abuse just as humans can but must be rehabilitated using dog psychology, not human psychology. Dogs live in the moment while we live with the past (not letting go of a tragic past event), present and future (is our dog going to bite someone). You can't help an animal if you pity them. Like with any goal you must envision what you want, picture yourself walking your dog calmly without them pulling or lunging. If we anticipate the worst (a dog attack) we will pass our nervous, anxious energy to our dog who doesn't understand our stress may be related to something else, they will see our weak energy and feel the need to take control of the situation. Someone must always be the pack leader and if its not the human then a dog will take on the role themselves. Watch for subtle clues between your dogs, your older one might be sending messages that start the chomp from your new dog. Dogs challenge each other with their eyes, pay attention to their breathing, their posture, watch if they stop panting and become very quiet. Snap your fingers or say 'hey' (or whatever noise/word you use to correct unwanted behaviour) and stop the behaviour at level 1 before it reaches a higher intensity. You may think that the unwanted behaviour is the bite/attack but it starts before that and addressing it at the beginning prevents it from escalating to a higher level which will be more difficult to correct. Make sure your intensity matches or is a bit higher than the intensity of their behaviour. If they are jumping up on you a bit yelling 'HEY!' is too strong a correction. If they are jumping uncontrollably on you, your guests and the furniture a soft 'hey' won't be enough to correct your dog....See MoreTraveling with dog for the first time
Comments (25)You are getting good advice. It is much easier traveling with two people because you can take turns staying with (and walking) the dog at stops. It is also easier to spot the dog walking area (be it just a nearby field or grassy out if the way spot or a designated area) first and let the first walker and the dog out there then the other can fill the tank and take care of her business. Then trade off the dog duties while the other goes in. Avoid the dog walking across long expanses of hot asphalt. Use the child locks for the windows with the dog in the car -- they can accidentally roll down the window. Also be careful when you roll the windows up -- you don't want to catch a snout or neck. Train the air from the front to the back and even consider taking a light jacket for you and your DD so you won't freeze if you can crank the air on high for the pup. My DH and Huskyboy live the car really cool (cold) and I always need a light jacket and sometimes even a throw or towel over my lap if I have on shorts. For a 12 hour trip, you might want to just pack a picnic lunch to eat at a picnic area rest stop. You'll all enjoy the short break. Plenty of water and ice, with maybe a few special treats and the pup will be fine. Enjoy your trip!...See MoreAdults as first-time dog owners?
Comments (73)Yes you reminded me Nanny. I should have been more clear on dogs with history and adoptions for the inexperienced. I was targeting the local dog pound type places. Not saying that is always bad either but many of these dogs have history and that can add another layer. The extra layer is something experienced dog people can handle a little better. We once adopted a beautiful abused long coat Retriever from the Pet Mobil. She was sweet to us, her canine brothers and sisters but would out of the blue try to kill other dogs. It was weird. She also did not like men in hats. We had her for twelve wonderful years but she had to be watched. Some if not most of dog rescue organizations that specialize in specific breeds can be great and are my favorite. I went to one such place when adopting my Rottweiler. They only did Rottweilers. We had a very detailed home inspection plus I had to bring my other pets in so they could observe the interaction. Before that I had filled out a form where I described the temperament I was seeking. We got exactly what we were looking for. What a perfect fit and loving dog. Most of breed specialty rescue organizations also have dogs who like and have been around cats if one is looking for that. These type of rescue organizations take the time to make a good fit. They really know the dog. My last adoption was from a rescue group who specializes in dogs that have been sick and or were unadoptable due to behavioral issues. Their days were numbered. My little Brussels/Yorkie mix had been kept in a crate with a sibling with no socialization, filth and not much care. He was sick and would poo and pee all over anyone who held him. However, I was filled in with all the problems and knew what I was getting into. What a loving little character this dog is now. He still has some fear issues when being walked and goes insane when a car passes us but is improving all the time. I'm now down to two....See MoreThe Importance of Social Distancing
Comments (16)May I add, as a sort of PSA: Regarding social distancing in grocery stores, I ask that everyone please be courteous of everyones TIME as well as personal space. For example, if you want someone to stay 6 feet away, you need to keep it moving. Get your stuff and MOVE. Especially if there are multiple people in that same aisle, waiting for you to move because they want to abide by the guidelines. If you want me to keep my distance, then don't stand in a aisle, 2 feet away from what i need, and friggin him-haw around, comparing labels and prices and taking an online poll about one item over the other,chit chatting on your phone and otherwise camping out in my way. Or if you do, keep that nasty look to yourself when i DO get within 2 feet of you to get what i need. Or look in a mirror and give that look to yourself. I have to get to work lady, move your butt or get over it. I am moving mine. Watch how easy it is, just watch: *puts one foot in front of the other over and over,grabbing the items i want as i go* OR If you are in a grocery store that has implemented one-way aisles, its not anything less than obnoxious for you and your shopping companion to park your carts in the middle of the aisle, side by side so no one can get through, and proceed to huddle up together 6 feet away from said carts, taking pictures of cans of cat food for some reason. Perhaps sending them to someone else that you are shopping for? Maybe you are scanning the labels for one of those point giving apps? How nice. Move your carts donkeys. Now i have to turn around and go the WRONG WAY to get out of that aisle,defeating the whole purpose because you're a doofus. Wow, that feels better. I should have out this in my "letter" thread. But it bears mentioning....See MoreMars SC Zone 8b Mars
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