Funeral Dinner in times of COVID
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Comments (12)Lucy, Sylvia is exactly right..FDHs son is probably embarrassed, and angry if he was disiplined for what he did with the fist raising, but what are your expectations when you marry, FSS has to visit his dad at grandmas ? He will have to come to your home eventually, FDH needs to mend these fences between you and your sons and his son, not run off to grandmas...Also does FDH want Ex at the family functions? Why doesnt he tell her, stopping in is OK, but dont wear out your welcome, this is MY family, not yours... I have stopped at Exs family wakes usually before the home opens, to drop a card and sign the book, that way they know I cared enough to come, but didnt stick around to cause drama...I have had major problems with DH s ex coming to funerals, geez, I thought she d outlast the grieving spouse, as far as her staying power. DH and I just ignore her. But as far as sons needing support, DH was in the hospital, FSDIL asked if I called Ex to come, I was incredulous!!!!DH didnt want her there, but she was more than welcome to sit in the parking lot and give them hugs every half hour or so, if she chose to...Good luck with thse beauties, I feel your pain.......See MoreAre you going to watch the funeral for Prince Phillip?
Comments (38)No, too much housework this weekend. I'm an Anglophile but not that into the royal family. On the other hand, I hope the Queen will be supported by her "subjects" and fellow countrymen and women. It's a profound loss for her, and as the country's "granny" I think she has done such a wonderful job over the years in that difficult position. It's really a testament to girl power, and yet I also think the Prince, outdated as you might think the monarchy is/was, also did his best to fill the role but also put his own stamp on it. Who among us could hold a job for 73 years? To me, they are both holdovers from the Greatest Generation and the passing of any of them fills me with sadness. I felt the same way when Jerry Stiller died, so it's not a royal thing per se . . . Edited to add that people are saying how "sad" it is to see the Queen sitting alone. On the one hand, yes, profoundly sad. But I also think it is a testament to her great personal strength of character. She's still the Queen, she's tough, and she's not afraid to follow covid protocols or symbolically say, "I'm all alone now. Just me. I'm still standing/here." In a profoundly sad way but also to me, profoundly tough. This is how they got the moniker "Greatest" after their name. My uncle lost his much younger wife (him 92 her 76 when she died) and he was quite infirm at that point, but still managed to dress well in his mourning clothes and sit through what was one of the saddest funerals I have ever attended, stoic all the while, with no one comforting him because that's the way he wanted it. His wife died suddenly of a heart attack while taking a nap, no one even knew until they went to wake her up for dinner. Since she was so much younger, her dying first was never in their life radar screen. My uncle was sitting alone in the jungles of New Guinea trying to survive and root out entrenched Japanese when he was 18. His friends were dying all around him. He developed a stoicism that never left him. He went on to live 3 years without a wife that was his whole world. He was one of the few people I can say who truly looked "peaceful" in his coffin and actually like he was at rest. They buried him wearing his cap and sweatshirt from his WWII company. He was known for being reliable on his watches, so it was kind of nice that he looked restful, sort of indicating that he was OK with us taking over the watch....See MoreCovid is in the house
Comments (41)@petalique for three reasons: sh*ts and giggles (for a few weeks after Christmas I tested weekly) my son tested + Tuesday night I visited my husbands dying aunt in the Covid unit (n95 + surgical mask +gown +gloves + eye shield worn) the night my son tested positive. He messaged me the photo as we were leaving the hospital. That was why on Tuesday night. On Wednesday, I started to feel a sore throat. Because my son tested positive, I thought I had sympathy symptoms. LOL The sore throat was still there Thursday. By Thursday night when I was still negative I assumed strep throat. and Friday morning when I had the fever and fatigue I assumed I was right about the strep but tested again as I had to go to work in the afternoon and being the responsible person that I am, tested again. This time it was positive and super faint. I did two tests: one nasal, one throat. both came back with a super faint line. As for exposure? I work in a drugstore. Sick people shop in drugstores. They hang out in the aisles I work in. They touch EVERYTHING! Nobody has stopped touching EVERYTHING. 98% of our customers do not wear masks at all. They hang out in the aisle I work in. I am exposed DAILY. By people who say, "it's not covid, it's a cold. I tested earlier". Well, I had symptoms for 2 days before testing positive on the third day, it's wasn't strep as I suspected finally. And it was phantom symptoms. And most of the customers buying cough and cold meds are not masked when they are at my till and not standing behind the shield. And touching everything. We allow random people to come inside our lunchroom without a mask on to walk through to use our restrooms while we are eating our lunches and dinners. The staff I work with are mostly younger people who go to bars and parties. A few don't believe covid is a bad thing. And it certainly didn't help when one of them thought it was pregnancy symptoms and worked almost the whole time with Covid. She only tested because we had a staff meeting and everyone had to do a RAT test as there would be too many people in a small area. Even though I suspected she had covid before she tested (nausea, chills, sore back pain that ran down her leg), I didn't argue with her. A lot of people don't realize that pain is a covid symptom. While *I* did everything possible to avoid getting sick, or to passing it to someone else, the same wasn't done for me. Am I angry? yes and no. I was going to get it eventually. BUT, I shouldn't have gotten it from co-workers. Why we are not mandated to wear masks is beyond me. we are in healthcare and we don't have to wear a mask at work. I'm one of the few who does. And the three of us who are off right now always mask at work. But NOT in the lunchroom. We can't eat with a mask on and I"m not missing out on eating because people can't do what they're supposed to do. I'm a little angry right now. Can ya tell?...See MoreWhat time do you eat dinner/supper?
Comments (50)Such a variety of lives-I love the little peeks at what all of you do! We are staid boring boomers who eat between 6-6:30 while we watch the evening news. Have done that forever, it's just our habit and now that we are retired it has not changed. At the other end, I wake up usually around 6 - 7 am and MUST have breakfast immediately. I truly marvel at folks who don't/can't eat in the morning. I get physically ill pretty quickly if I don't get some nourishment first thing. I figure it's probably due to my genetic glucose management body system; lots of diabetes in the family and though I don't have that I do have some hypoglycemic tendencies. I get shaky, headaches, then nauseated if I go too long without breakfast. For me, annual fasting bloodwork is a nightmare especially now that I live 50 miles from my lab. This summer there was a mixup and I didn't get the blood drawn till 10:30 am, after waking up at 5 am and getting to the lab at 7:15(!) I always take orange juice in a cooler and wash down a couple of tylenol with it then go get a big lumberjack breakfast somewhere, but bloodwork days are lost days-I feel horrible no matter what....See Morenickel_kg
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