I have oak cabinets and worked with them as they are - though I did refinish them but kept them close to the same color. Pictures are in my "my pics" idea book in case there is something you see that is helpful. I know it is difficult to find pictures with oak cabinets right now. My trim is white. I painted my 70's dark stained pine many years ago. My style is a sort of Victorian cottage / French Country style: http://www.houzz.com/ideabooks/57579129/thumbs/my-pics-work-in-progress

Oak white combo is not dated. This pic on This Old House site last week: Other pics: Paint your cabinets only if you want to. Do not get on the trend merry go round. Unless your budget is huge, you wont be able to keep up with the changing trends.

Here's a picture of it next to what appears to be honey oak floors and it looks nice: Edgecomb Gray (Kylie M Interiors) Definitely try a sample of it in your space and look at it on different walls at different times of day to see if you like it in your lighting with all the other elements in your space. In my lighting the paint chip tends to skew a little purple, but I haven't heard anyone else mention that. I prefer Alaskan Skies (BM-972), which is very similar to Edgecomb Gray but doesn't skew purplish to me. The guy at our paint store tried to tell me Edgecomb Gray was the same color as Alaskan Skies, just a different name (they no longer carry the Alaskan Skies paint chip in our local store), but I can definitely detect a difference.

Please add photos. Where do you want to replace the flooring, throughout the house?