House warming gift suggestions - with limitations
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Comments (42)Is this their first apartment together, or is she moving in with him into his apartment? Guess it doesn't really matter, as I wouldn't go at all, nor would I send a gift. I don't care that I'd seem to be an 'old fogie'...the mother is of our generation for cryin' out loud!! It's in very bad form. I worked in a very small, tight-knit group and one of the support staff was pregnant with her 3rd child. Our section threw her a shower at work and invited other divisions to attend also. A few people got her nice outfits, but no one got her the new car seat, crib, stroller, bedding, etc that had been 'suggested'. In fact, the majority of the people who actually attended didn't bring anything. And fewer than a dozen people came by anyway. It didn't make things weird around the office and she didn't act put out by the lack of gifts or attendance. She seemed to be happier that her closest co-worker threw the party more than anything else. So, bottom line, I wouldn't attend this event, even if you did say yes at the initial email. Simply say something has come up (you have to give yourself a pedicure, that is something!!) and say have a good time. No gift, no apologies, no hard feelings. Her few brainless buddies (and mama) will attend and she'll get a few ridiculous gifts and be over it. Save your guilty conscience for the wedding. (insert sarcasm here!)...See MoreAny shopping suggestions for toasty-warm socks?
Comments (16)Wool is the warmest thing around. I usually find wool socks at my local TJMaxx or Marshalls in the men's section. I have seen the Smartwool there for between $5 - $10 a pair. They are super expensive in the regular retail stores. Since in my house socks have a way of getting lost, I can't see paying a whole lot for them. I buy 3 or 4 pairs at a time, always in the same color/style so it doesn't matter if one takes a walk on its own....See MoreSetting limits on gifts for adult step-children
Comments (27)I am probably going to get a boo or hiss but I am not sure why a sane ex-wife couldn't attend her ex-husbands funeral. Remember at one time there was enough love to marry and create a family. I think there may be much more to the Kasem story then we are privy to. I am sure I am not the only one who is on both sides of the wife thing. Now that my children are adults and my ex's SK's are adults finances are really getting diverted. At least with child support my kids were getting some thing. My ex is the main bread winner in his home. She stopped working as soon as she could. My children raised by me are very independent and financially secure. Her children are not. They are now "helping" hers out. I know if my ex dies before her my children will not see a Penny. Do not get me wrong, I expect her to live off their accumulated funds but I suspect my kids will be out of the will and all the money go to her children. I fortunately, do not have any of those issues with my SK. It was not so years ago though. The issue was not with SK but mom not having enough money and backing out of things all the time. I for one love that my SK is an adult and I love the time we spend together. Once a parent though always a parent and there will always be reasons for interaction....See MoreSympathy gift suggestions...asap
Comments (15)I received some very thoughtful gifts when my mother died recently -a flowering bush to plant in her memory, a donation to a food bank, etc. But honestly, the one that touched me the most was a letter from my old high-school boyfriend, whom I haven't spoken to in more than thirty years. He took the time to write about some very specific memories he had of my mom while spending time at our house all those years ago, and I was deeply touched. You may be able to put together a SNAPFISH (or other) small book with pictures and text of some of your favorite memories. To me, that would be a very special gift....See MoreDLM2000-GW
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