my husband thinks the living room is too cluttered. Agree or not?
Caroline Riley
4 years ago
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GC and husband agree with everyone else...too many porches!
Comments (43)I'll admit straight off that I've only looked at the drawings and haven't read any feedback. I know you have been working on this for a while and I have seen numerous layouts over the last couple of years and they are always changing. I don't fault you for that as I spent a year looking at online plans before deciding to draw my own plans for our future dream home. I re-visit mine every few months, as we are waiting for the market to recover more in our area before moving forward. I tweak a little here and there but the basis layout of the house has never changed. I don't mean this as a negative dig but it seems that you are not quite sure what you want or where you want it. I did my initial drawings using Microsoft excel. Open a spreadsheet. Click the little box in the upper left hand corner to highlight the entire sheet and change both your rows and columns to the same pixel size. This will give you a true graph paper to work with and then everything you do will then be to scale. Use the border function to draw boxes, copy and paste if you don't like the flow and before you know it you'll have a functional floor plan. As I don't know your room sizes this is a rough beginning. I changed a few things. Swapped the sink and range, added a prep sink to the island and swapped the bath with the outside entry as I would not like a view of the toilet from the front door....See MoreMy husband thinks I am crazy!
Comments (22)Hi, Calibean! Beautiful table! IMHO, I'm not seeing those chairs as being your best choice either. And the original ones you wanted with the nailhead trim would likely be a cleaning nightmare if your kids are as messy as you describe. I think if I were you, I'd keep a watch on CL for chairs where you might find a great deal. In this economy, I'm always a little reticent to advise someone to spend much money if DH doesn't agree. Sometimes they're truly worried about how to keep the family budget fiscally sound. So first of all make sure you're both on the same page there. Perhaps using the dining chairs even longterm isn't such a bad idea. Many homes now only have one eating area (at least out west where I live) even in the 2400 sf range. Perhaps we're more casual than other parts of the country. Good luck with your choice! BTW for you and many others who don't seem to notice, right below the message box is a place to post links so they're clickable. Just copy the address you want to link, then paste it in the Link box, then type a name for your link below it. It's simple and makes life easier for us to see your link without having to copy and paste....See MoreHusband and I cannot agree on a floor plan
Comments (122)1) Having grown up in the house with stairs: It is totally possible to have comfortable and not expensive heating/cooling on both floors. Because you use your stairs daily, you immediately get into and stay in good enough shape to use your stairs every day. They do not feel like a major effort to use ever. I now live in a place without stairs, and I notice when I go back to my childhood home (where my parents still live), the stairs feel to me like a lot more work than ever did when I was living there. My septuagenarian parents still pop up and down those stairs with no issue at all because they use them every day. I think, after a couple months of living in a two story home, you will not ever feel as if the stairs are too much at the end of a tiring day. You seriously won't even think about your stairs. Why not leave a natural spot where you could install an elevator in future years? If this does indeed become your forever home as you are hoping, install the elevator if you ever become infirm enough to need it. If you do leave a spot for the elevator, then your master could just as easily be upstairs with the kids' bedrooms for now. It's nice (quieter, more private, safer) to have the bedrooms both farther from the living areas and from the ground floor/street. It also can afford you some better views from the master if that room is on higher floor. If that alleviates all your concerns about a second story, a second story would really help you out here. Laying out your first floor to your satisfaction will be much, much easier when you aren't trying to fit so much into it, AND you'll get a bigger yard. 2) If your goal is to have more family time and less TV time, having a separate TV room means people will go into that separate room to watch TV and not spend time with family. A dark room away from the noise of the family is the best kind of room if all you want to do is watch TV, be completely absorbed by the TV, and not interact with the family. A separate TV room also makes it more difficult for someone elsewhere (a parent) to monitor what is being watched and for how long. Especially once the kids are older and occupying themselves more independently in the house, you will randomly discover them in the TV room all the time. Honestly, if instead you have a small TV placed awkwardly in the great room so the TV viewing experience is never awesome, quiet, or private, and you have strong rules about when the TV can be watched and enforce them (which you'll be able to do easily because in a more-frequented area, you can more easily keep an eye on things), less TV-watching and less away-from-family time will happen. You set up a proper theater in your home when you are a TV enthusiast, not a TV avoider. I know this from experience. My husband wishes he had a perfectly dark, silent room away from all of us where he could watch his choice of surround sound bluray movies and TV shows on a giant screen and not have to ever be disturbed by all our noise and activity. Instead, we have the TV in our open layout living room where all the kitchen noise, windows, and family hubbub ruins his viewing experience all the time. But then he is forced to help me with dinner, feed the cat, put on a show we both like, hang out with me, etc. He complains and shushes me a lot, but if he had his desired movie room, I'd never see him again! Given your desires, you might be best if you have no theater room AND no TV in the living room. Instead, just put a TV in the master bedroom so you and your husband are the only people in the house who can watch TV. 3) Can you describe how you intend to use the computer room? Is it just a home office? Or is it meant to be used as part of the homeschooling? Seems as if it could be combined with something else....See MoreI think my fireplace is swallowing my living room.
Comments (13)as already suggested, paint the mantel. Its the mantel that's visually heavy and holding your eye in one spot. Either the whole mantel the color of the walls, or the bottom part of the mantelpiece the color of the walls, which will leave the mantel with an airier 'strip' of wood. Try the latter first, you can paint the rest, which is probably where you'll end up anyway. Once you reduce the heaviness of that mantel, your eye will be free-er to move about the room. You can further reduce the visual weight of the whole fireplace bumpout by painting it the same color as the other walls. This will make it 'disappear' into its surroundings....See MoreAnne Duke
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