My house is painted a really great color that I don’t see called Wheat Bread by Behr. It is a chameleon color that usually looks more grey but sometimes more tan. I looked at pics online but they are way more brown than my walls are. I do have it by other walls that are painted, River Rock by Behr, that I thought was grey but ended up being blue. So the cool blue must bring out the cooler grey of the Wheat Bread. I get lots of compliments on the colors. I’ve had it 9 1/2 years, before anyone started using “greige”. I just called it taupe ; ).

Photos? the kitchen/dining colors don't sound like they match your LR furniture. UNLESS, the sofas are all ivory and you can replace the accessory colors. OR, alternatively, paint the kitchen wall a blue or green or soft white (which may be easier in the long run!).

You could start with a professional colorist or start at a BM or SW store; I have met some paint folks who were genius with color. Our local Lowe's had a guy; really miss him. You can work with a color wheel, but I think that will confuse you by providing too much info. If you look through a paint store's color cards that feature colors you like and varying shades of them on the same card, you can take them home where the LED lighting will give you a better feel for how each works in situ. I suggest you each go to the store separately and select your paint color cards. Sit down and discuss, justifying your choices and see if you can narrow the cards down to 2-3 for each of you. Then you can order larger samples from www.samplize.com so you can see them on different walls in each room, in different lighting and weather conditions (sunrise, sunset, nighttime, mid-day, raining, sunny, gray) to nail down how they will work in your room, with your lighting. You can also acquire info on other colors, not on the cards, that are designed to work with them in a complimentary way. Now, part of selecting color (really the last step in most decor projects) is to consider your fabrics/textiles, which can't be changed as easily as paint can be. If you have your rugs, upholstery, art already it will be easier to do. If starting from scratch, you'll need to start mood boards for the furniture you plan to purchase. Do you have samples of the flooring you've chosen? That's part of your "board" too. It will be easier to make decisions on the individual rooms if the flooring is already installed. Placing the color cards with the board will help focus in on the best color for your place, and it may not be the one you have in mind right now. Be sure to take a cushion or matching pillow from the navy sofa with you as you shop for color and other fabrics/textiles. Big job but worth taking your time!

Ok, I'm sticking to my opinion pretty much as '''budget fix for now'' -- Leave the table turned and put the floral sconces on either side of the window. Move the sideboard down the wall, away from the window, to solve your problem about chair clearance. Move the extra chair to the opposite wall, flat against the wall, not angled, to help fill the space left when you move the sideboard down. Rearrange your framed art and maybe even plates over the sideboard, and add other things to the wall that might look nice that's related to food, wine and family. Personally I would remove the rug. Possibly also buy inextpensive solid color drapes (wine color?) for both windows rather than place the urn sconces on each side of the back window. If you bring in drapes for the windows, consider using just one of those sconces rather than 2 in the room. I like the "cup" light fixture! PS: If you rehang the sconces, consider hanging them lower,