WWYD Ugh need suggestions
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Comments (21)Such good advice from so many wise women. The school year is such a stressful time for me. Thank you so much. I was ready to call and make an appointment with the principal today for next week to talk about switching my son but now I think I will mull it over this weekend. You have given me a lot of food for thought. I will take time later to try to address you individually but please know that I gave a lot of thought to each of your post. A little more info. The new teacher is under 30 and has taught for 2 yrs in another school but I have heard really good things about him. Also, please know that indeed this is a great school that cares about the kids and I know that a lot of thought was probably put into placing the kids. I have no doubt that they have the best interest of my child in mind. My boys were put together 2 yrs ago for my benefit so that the boys would have the same tests, homework,etc. When they were not together, especially with Ds special needs I thought I would lose it. It was an experiment to put them together but it saved my sanity. Plus with Ds executive function issues, his brother helps me stay on top of a lot of things. He writes down the assignments, brings home study guides, knows when test are, etc. He doesn't mind and doesn't resent it in the least. It's hard to describe how bad Ds executive function issues are....working memory, etc. I know they will have to be separated eventually and if I thought keeping them together was hurting my other son I would not. D does not have any behavioral issues, thank heaven. Except for the occasional meltdown at home. I don't want to unfairly judge the new teacher and not give him a chance. I am just going to think things over and decide what to do on Monday. I just know that I love my son and that things are hard for him under the best of circumstances. I can't afford for him to have any less than the best....See Morelayout -- ugh -- gc needs me to make a decision
Comments (44)There's no basement (we're in a So. Cal. split level built alongside a hill). We don't have a mudroom or a laundry room to borrow storage space from. The laundry is in a closet off of the family room. We're currently storing paper towels and bulk items in the wetbar that we don't use (also in the Family Room -- but it's going to get the boot one of these days). The wall between the dining room and family room is only 4" thick -- total, although I'm probably going to beef this up slightly because the family room is currently covered in paneling (it's been painted, but as long as I'm remodeling, we might as well fix that) and there's no insulation in the walls. Other thought I had was to do a partial half wall with support columns there to open the family room up to the dining/kitchen area. I would have to keep part of the wall so I have something to set my barrister's bookcase against, but a half wall would let the cook see the TV. I could move the message center/backpack storage into the closet in the Family Room with a bit of an interior closet remodel (it's currently our games/toys/crafts/office supply closet). That wouldn't be too inconvenient since it is just around the corner from the front entry at the top of the stairs. Here's my floor plan again to help with visualization. The master bedroom is missing from this drawing (it's on the other side of the kitchen) and the kids' rooms/bathroom/linen closet on the third level are not quite to scale (they were sleeping when I was trying to draw it out). Here is a link that might be useful: Floorplan...See MoreNeed an exterior color to go with pinky peach (ugh) brick!
Comments (8)Oh fer pete sakes - 3 replies of "paint the brick", seriously? It only looks icky peach because the white contrasts w/it in such a way to bring out the peachiness. Color is very much about what other colors are in close proximity and reflecting off of it. You need a color that will make the brick read more like a reddish brown or a rich terra cotta beige. Perhaps a beigey-browny creamy beige midway between roof and brick color would pull it all together - with trim more of a cream than that stark white. I would spend some $$ on a color consultant, personally. If you post on Home Dec there are some color savvy folks there, but still youll probably get a lot of paint it white or paint it gray. If thats what you think you have to do (you dont, but if you think that) then I would suggest looking into masonry stains vs. paint which becomes, at best, an ongoing maintenance hassle and at worst a peeling mess....See MoreNeed to make a veggie tray - ugh!
Comments (44)i love that you made the skewers self standing! The question of how much people eat is deserving of its own thread. I'd think the cookbook ladies would bring appetites, but maybe if they gained the “Covid 19” they were being very careful? When the hoards come to my house the eat like locusts. Less now that the mean age is higher, but they eat. At open to all lunches post-services, where the food is pretty spare—enough for everybody, just, but little variety—there's usually only enough left to prove there was enough for everybody, but if there's a morning bagel breakfast meeting, there are usually a lot of leftovers. I don't know if that's poor planning, if the current generation want something different in the morning, or that the discount for bulk hits right around the quantity needed. Most people don't eat before services and if they're eating after, they're probably not on their way to another meal. Perhaps at a 9 or 10 o’clock breakfast/brunch, they've already eaten or are going to have lunch after. I was once in charge of such things for a ladies’ group, and other than tem asking for more protein and veg, and adjusting the bagel count for those who would break a half bagel in half, rather than taking a half bagel and eating how much they wanted, they all ate well, always....See Moremtnrdredux_gw
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