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Comments (14)Thanks to #32 Sheila Taylor for registering. Guys imagine if you were having a dinner party at your house and sent out invitations to 150+ guests and only 32 bothered to RSVP but you knew that there was probably a good chance that at least four times that many were going to come. What if all those people were coming anyway without sending their RSVP and they were coming with high expectations and you were the only one responsible for the entire gig? How would you prepare? How would you feel? What would you do? Well welcome to my world four months out of the year! I'm not going to plead anymore or mention it again because I'm just simply fed-up and sick of doing it. ItÂs ridiculous to have to beg grown adults to take 30 seconds out of their lives to register for a free event that is put on for their benefit. I've requested help and only received a total of EIGHT people that have responded to my pleas. If you don't have any more respect for me or compassion for what I'm trying to do for you than that...fine. Obviously nobody seems to have the vaguest concept or care about the time, effort and planning that it takes to pull this off. Folks complain that I run a loose ship and need to have the event be more organized but nobody wants to respond to my need for assistance to help make it more organized! This event is for YOU! You're only going to get out of it what YOU put into it so if you do nothing  make sure that you expect nothing in return. Sorry if that sounds harsh or offends anyone but it is what it is. The expectations that have been put on Jan, Mona and me are unrealistic if YOU donÂt help!!! As much as we want to do, there is only so much one person can do to organize an event of this magnitude twice a year. As I've said before, this is my last MTPS as Director so you won't have to put up with me, my unrealistic requests or my vents any longer. There will be a changing of the guard for the Fall swap and I'll make that announcement on May 16th as my last official act. For the most part I have loved holding this position and hosting the last dozen MTPS; I only hope that you will be more responsive to the needs of your new Director. Sorry that IÂve vented my frustrations but thatÂs about all I have left at this point so itÂs good thing that IÂm a lame-duck Director. For those that have been responsible, thoughtful and courteous enough to register and offer to help you have my deepest heartfelt thanks. For the ones that I've always been able to count on - you guys have a loyal and devoted friend for life!...See MoreR.S.V.P. does anyone know what that means any longer?
Comments (11)We recently had an invite to a party that read "the courtesy of a reply would be greatly appreciated" along with the phone number. It was for our niece's 21st, I didn't ring because we had told both my BIL and SIL on different occasions that we were coming. My husband told me a few days before the party that most of the family members invited had not replied at all. This was for a catered sit-down meal that had to have definite numbers ahead of time....See MoreThere's always one or two, no matter how hard you plan!
Comments (14)Glenda, I have a couple suggestions from my past experiences. Get a sheet of stick-on name tags; write the name, on a tag, of each person who made a reservation, and pass them out as they arrive. Twenty eight replies equals seating for 28 people. I know some folks don't like name tags, so here is an alternate suggestion. Get some of those little place cards, write the 28 names on 28 cards, then hand them out as they arrive. In either case, they choose where they want to sit; you are not making that decision. No reply, no reserved seat. "An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure." Sue...See MorePool party update
Comments (36)I did not mean to imply your friend has meadows. She is not asking for special consideration at others' homes. Your friend's doctor may be wrong as well for every doctor who suggests bans there are an equal,( Actually many more, for both the ACAAAI AND AAAAI are strongly against bans) who say we need allergic patients to learn to live in a contaminated environment because as my doctor says, it is not a matter of if your child will accidentally consume said allergens but when even with the bans. Peanutbutter saves and improves many poor children's lives. It is an affordable, non perishable protein. It is a very important staple in SNAPs backpack program and without it many impoverished young children could fail to thrive. Is it ok to not allow such an important staple that helps 100 children because less than ten have an allergy? is one child's very treatable allergy more important than feeding many more hungry poor children? my daughter's allergies include peanuts but the other children in my house eat peanut butter regularly we just follow safety procedures and she has her epipen on her. She has been hospitalized for reactions and yes hers are life threatening. All her hospitalization reactions occurred in a class room with food bans not at home where we do not practice bans. everyone is allowed to eat what they are not allergic to but must wash hands and not share. i left the PTA because two allergy moms insisted on this sign at our school. They failed to see the humor in it. It seems that nut allergies are so prevalent today that squirrels are suffering from them too. The gluten allergy mom had the sense to not push for a due to wheat allergies please do not feed the ducks!...See MoreUser
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