Thank you all so much for your input. Unfortunately, I had to paint the cabinets. The house was rented for 7 years and the oak finish was destroyed. It would have been more costly to sand and restain than to paint. Believe me it was a hard decision to pull the trigger on. I ended up going with SW Snowbound for the cabinets and did the center island in SW Dovetail. Fingers crossed that it turns out ok. As I stated I had to make the decision very quickly. We did use a professional cabinets person at least. Pretty sure I lost several years off my life that day :/ I will post pics when it is complete.

You’ll either need to drill a cup hole in the door for concealed euro soft close hinges, or a groove for knife hinges. Neither is particularly simple.

The cabinet fronts are beautiful. Just touch them up with a stain pen if needed. If they are grody inside, you can paint the insides white. Or shellac them if they are just stinky. You don't even have to do a good job unless people will be looking inside. :) I love those bamboo handles, but they don't go at all with the kitchen. Leave the hinges (they blend in and would be a hassle to change) and go with a black, bronzed, or brass knobs/pulls. Your kitchen looks like a high-end custom kitchen, just somewhat vintage. Get it functional and spiff it up so it looks good. Let it be what it is and don't try to get it looking current because it won't.

I assume you’re getting Samplize paint swatches or something similar to try in various parts of your kitchen and next to your floor and countertops. You’ve chosen cool gray colors do likely you’ll need a cool green, gray- green and will likely eliminate warm greens. For example, I like Billiard as a green for me because of how it’s a yellow - green and looks good with warm woods. But probably is not your green with that flooring. Some of the other greens are quite dark , kind of blackened, so see if they are too dark or instead give a good crisp look.