Thank you, thank you, thank you to absolutely everyone up and down this thread. It's been immensely helpful. I've decided to go with creamy stucco and darker trim to defer to the original character of the house. I feel like it's possible to reverse the weights but its and unnecessary risk that won't really honor the original proportions of the house. My next stuggle will be how much contrast and what exact colors.

I don’t know what you mean by“true beige” because every beige has undertones of either yellow, green, red/pink and occasionally orange. All paint colors have an undertone…even white (big time). That’s what makes choosing a paint so exciting. Your best bet for looking at a beige is B.M. CSP as they are formulated without black in the mix; each looks better on a wall than on the chip. Do not forget your natural lighting…NSEW... orientation delivers light which can either compliment or ruin a color.

I agree monitors are impossible. I can tell you we used Swiss Coffee on the trim of a previous home. It's a soft white that looked close to the trim color in your 2nd and 3rd photos. Pretty sure most paint companies have a Swiss Coffee. Ours was from Benjamin Moore.

@violetcooks I am so glad you found a color that makes you happy and works with the lighting and other colors in your home. I asked a few months ago how you felt about Natural Linen because I was in a situation where I had to pick a color for someone else's home and I couldn't go into the space to test colors. (They were moving into an assisted living apartment.) All I had was flooring, cabinet and countertop samples and knew the trim color. In this case the Flooring was a weathered wood LVP that had some browns and some grays and the grays had that touch of purple. I struggled between Canvas Tan and Natural Linen, but next to the flooring the Canvas Tan pulled green. We went with Natural Linen and it worked out perfectly. The owner is thrilled and tells everyone what a perfect neutral I picked. I was holding my breath the entire time they were waiting to see the finished apartment and move in. Thank you for sharing your insights and keeping us up to date over the past 2 years.