A house that does not feel Like home
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Feel like buying an existing house after so many lot issues!
Comments (8)Hi bus driver, Well, the tolerance is getting much lower. We get one thing taken care of then another thing comes up. The engineers don't explain things, just take money and do what they are supposed to do and then mention other issues after they get you deeply involved, etc. The RE attorney very good, but so many issue are so technical, that even the township attorney isn't sure on things. Luckily the seller has been spending the money to do most of the work (lot lines redrawn and surveys to go with it. They also did septic approval, but now need to move septic bc of another issue that evolved after the approval was done.) The attorney fees on our side are piling up.. and it's just basic things. I wish we could find a resale we liked...then I think the frustration of the lot would get too much and we would walk away. So, I guess it's a waiting game and watching to see if something good comes up. Unfortunately, some decent things have come up, but we are so wishy washy and it's upsetting to pour money into fixing something up that will never be exactly what you want....See MoreMoved out for the 1st time ... when does home start feeling like home?
Comments (7)What you are feeling is perfectly normal for your first home away from home, especially if it's with a significant other. Moving out on your own without moving in with a significant other gives you the space and privacy of getting used to such a change. Once everything is in place and you establish a routine, you'll start to have your favorite cozy spots in the house, you will start to create memories there, and it will start to feel like home. But no place feels like home quite like the one you grew up in, and that is perfectly normal as well. Everyone goes through this part of life. Good luck!...See MoreDoes your house HAVE to have something to feel "right?"
Comments (40)When my husband's job moved to another state and him with it, I stayed behind (it was 400 miles) to get ready to sell and move. He went house hunting in the new town all by himself. I told him that the new home must have a garbage disposal, a window over the kitchen sink and a big window with a view from the kitchen table. Other than those 3 things, I could make do with whatever house he picked out. The day we moved in was the first time I saw my new home. It had the disposal, and a window over the sink, but it was too high for short me to see anything out of it but the tops of trees. And there was a window with a view from the table, but the dog couldn't see out of it. Within 2 months those windows were changed to accommodate both me and the dog. I loved that house, DH did a great job house hunting on his own....See MoreHow to curate a rental to feel like home
Comments (0)have open conversations The first step is to have an open conversation with your landlord or letting agent about the property; this can happen before moving in or while you are living there. Take a look at the current decor, if you come across very individually painted walls such as purple, blue or anything that isn’t neutral consider asking them if they are willing to repaint to fit a more neutral scheme. If you are planning on being a tenant for a more extended period, you will often find that your landlord will be happy to “neutralise” the properties decor, as a sweetener you could offer to take on the painting work and bill the landlord for the paint. You will often find that the current decor may have come from previous long term tenants who took it upon themselves to decorate; there is no harm in asking. If your landlord seems firmly set on their decor choices, consider this a deciding factor on if you want to rent the property or not. Asking for the property to have a neutral colour scheme is a reasonable ask, be mindful of this, if you request to paint the property orange, well I think the majority of landlords would say no. Consider the existing colour scheme. When you move into a property, look at what you have to work with, If the walls are white, cream, magnolia, grey, Egyptian cotton or any neutral tone you can do a little happy dance, this will enable you to build a space that you can personalise to fit your taste. Yes, it does mean that you, unfortunately, can’t customise the walls in the way you’d like. Still, it does mean that the rest of the space, including furniture, decor and accessories can speak for themselves without being confused by the colour scheme. The same applies to carpets, grey, cream or even black rugs are easy to work with when it comes to styling; if your floors are wooden, even more of a bonus! Now the tricky part, if you are looking at the scheme you have to work with, and you have a token blue or “feature” wall that perhaps isn’t to your taste don’t worry, it isn’t the end of the world, we just need to work with it, pull back and incorporate that shade in with our style. “look at what you have to work with, If the walls are white, cream, magnolia, grey, Egyptian cotton or any neutral tone you can do a little happy dance” Consider “Hiding” techniques. Here is a scenario, you’ve found a great rental, it has everything that you want from a rental property, it has space, two bedrooms and a little bit of outdoor space but one of the living room walls are painted blue, now what? Firstly get your furniture in the room, people are often surprised that even with undesirable wall coverings how much space starts to feel like home with your belongings in there. If you’re still not ‘feeling’ it lets consider some “hiding” techniques, think big mirrors (Don’t worry if you can’t hang things on your walls, oversized mirrors work beautifully propped up on a sideboard, console or simply leant against a wall). Another excellent hiding technique is to use fabric. If you have unsightly alcoves, consider purchasing a tension rod to fill the gap. To accompany the rod purchase some drapes, a lightweight linen curtain or cloth to hang from it to hide the wall entirely, this will create a purposefully styled look that will work as a backdrop for any furniture. Reversible changes If drapes or hiding your unsightly rental features just won't cut it the time has come to consider some reversible changes, these are improvements that can be made to the property by ourselves that are easily reversible at the time of departure, here are some examples to set you off ; Peel & Stick Wallpaper, Here is an excellent example of a quirky, yet beautiful peel and stick wallpaper. The joy in peel and stick is that it is essentially a giant sticker that leaves no residue or damage on the wall underneath meaning you can customise your walls to your heart's content! Changing up the curtains, most rental properties come with old sleepy curtains, get some light, fresh drapes and replace them, just be sure to store the landlord's curtains in a safe place. Keep your new curtains floor length so that they can be reused and repurposed if you are to move again! Swap out hardware. If your rental has hardware that is dated, hanging off or is excessively elaborate simply unscrew it and pop it in a safe place. Replace with affordable or second-hand hardware from E-bay or charity shops that offer a different look; you can even paint them to achieve the desired look you after going after. Use small wall tacks that leave a pin-sized hole in the wall to hang small items such as decorative baskets, wall art & other decorative items. Decor is key Lastly, with any space decor is vital, consider the purpose of each room and what story you want it to tell. Curate items that work together and speak for your personality and individual style. Talking with my other half, we decided that we find the things that bring us the most homely comfort are plants, proper lighting (from lamps), layered textiles; cushions, throws, blankets, curtains, tablecloths and artwork; whether propped up on a surface or hung on the wall. Bringing items into your home that represents you will assist in making the space feel homely or inviting, consider things that also hold sentimental value such as a grandparents sideboard, a piece of your mum's artwork or a tea-set from an aunty!...See Morel pinkmountain
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