Moving, not looking forward to the process
7 years ago
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Stalled again! How do you move forward?
Comments (6)I say make a plan or drawing first.I was just starting with a small vege garden and wasn't thinking of design, so just went with square/rectangular boxes Dopey me! My DH is a woodcarver/worker and I could have done some spectacular stuff! I will in my expansion! He's not off the hook this time! LOL. Anyway, do the design (really try to do the wide paths to save your back!), then just do one bed at a time! Maybe cover the rest of the area in compost and cardboard to start getting the soil into shape as you are developing your first bed or 2? That will make your next one even easier! I'm going on 10 years with the origional hardware cloth wire. Be sure to get the heavy duty stuff if you're using it for gophers! Chicken wire does NOT work! It's holes are too big and it will rot out in a couple of years! I keep my herbs separate from the vege garden proper. When I started the herb garden, I had discovered this board and the cottage garden board and made it much prettier than the basic vege garden. I have also lined the vege beds with flower planters to soften things a bit. Lastly, don't think of it as such a chore! Enjoy the ride! Nancy...See MoreTrying to Move forward
Comments (1)Your feelings are very normal, and you do not need to share knowledge of your intended wedding day with anyone. It might be a good day for you to spend doing something special that you and Jesse liked to do, or maybe be with his family or your family and friends who understand. Grief is long, slow, and painful. It just takes time, and there are no shortcuts unfortunately. Cry all you need to. To be fair to your new boyfriend, it will just trouble him if you have periods of unexplained sadness. It's not right to be "mysterious" about your grief because he will not understand what is going on with you. It is possible you are not ready to "move on" and need to take more time for yourself to recover from this terrible loss. When did Jesse pass away? 9-11-10--does that make sense? I was just wondering how long he has really been gone. Deepest condolences....See MoreMoving forward with my bedroom
Comments (15)oh gosh, now I'm confused. At first I was thinking that I would go with the straight bottom to match the tailored bedskirt, but then I remembered the bottom of my matelasse is scalloped. Does that change your mind as to which I should go with. It's hard to tell from my inspiration picture, but I'm not sure she has the wide rod at the top of the valance. Do you like the wide rod or should I go with a smaller one? Do you think she just used a small round one? Laurie...See Morecan't move forward - need help please!
Comments (36)My camera is broken, but I may take pics with my sister's tomorrow. I'll let you all weigh in :> A couple things I didn't mention in my first post is the issue we have with our floor underlayment. To tile it the right way, we have to rip all our particle board out and replace it with plywood, and it is a messy and costly process. On top of that, DH's income is HALF of what it was a year ago because he is in sales and directly tied into the economy. Also, he suffered a head injury a few months ago which he is still having problems with which is adding stress to this whole process. So unfortunately, we are doing this at a bad time for us and really had bigger plans. So I'm trying to save money where I can, and I don't have a problem with that. Okay. I think I just talked myself into the vinyl! I'll start a new thread with pictures. Thanks again everybody, and sorry for whining. I know these problems are miniscule compared to what many others have to deal with. (everybody here is so sick of me and all my indecision. It's nice to be able to come to this forum for objective opinions and support :)...See More- 7 years agolast modified: 7 years ago
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